You gotta understand that what feels right to you, me, and the guy down the street are all three different things.
One guy may think it's too slow, and bump the game speed up to Fast. Another guy may think it's too easy to pass and he may bump up the CPU pass sliders. And another guy may simply think the game play's perfect out of the box, and not even bother to touch sliders.
I think guys here expect EA and other sports titles to cater to sim players, when their number one goal is to make the best game that will bring the most sales.