Problems with my son

[JohnyBlacks]

Hi to all of you guys!
So about my problem :

Recently Ive spotted that my son is acting weird, he refuses to talk with me, sometimes coming back home too late and I think that he is on drugs or was enforced by some bad company, sometimes I say that it is better to stay at home and play games instead of going out with some freaky `friends`.

Wife offered me to start a spy for him, at least for his devices.
We searched some and found some top lists of spy apps, but their prices are always too high, we can`t afford this big price during the lockdown, even the purpose is hilarious.

After all my wife`s friend advised us this website https://theteensafe.com where prices are not that high, but I am still in doubt whether they are real or this is just a fraud..
Did you try it or heard about some experience? Or somebody can advise me any other proper app to resolute this problem or any other way to control the kid, I don`t know what to do ..

2 months ago Ive even bought a new pc for him, it was just a hope that he will switch up for gaming instead of these suspicious activities..

[baconbits11]

I have three sons and one daughter and have used various monitoring devices through the years on their PC, Tablets and phones. The best I have found is Kaspersky Safe Kids, it's only $14.99 a year for multiple devices and you can get features and review here:

https://www.pcmag.com/reviews/kaspersky-safe-kids

I have also used Quostudio. and it is good, but a bit pricey but has some nice features:

https://www.qustodio.com/

I wish you and your wife all the best for your son. What an age we live in when you have to monitor all these things. When I was a kid, all my mom had to worry about is calling for me when the streetlights came on and how much Atari I was playing! Best of luck and I hope the suggestions help. Happy Holidays!

[kehlis]

How old is your son?

[JohnyBlacks]

He is 14 years old now

[JohnyBlacks]

Quote: Originally Posted by baconbits11

I have three sons and one daughter and have used various monitoring devices through the years on their PC, Tablets and phones. The best I have found is Kaspersky Safe Kids, it's only $14.99 a year for multiple devices and you can get features and review here: https://www.pcmag.com/reviews/kaspersky-safe-kids I have also used Quostudio. and it is good, but a bit pricey but has some nice features: https://www.qustodio.com/ I wish you and your wife all the best for your son. What an age we live in when you have to monitor all these things. When I was a kid, all my mom had to worry about is calling for me when the streetlights came on and how much Atari I was playing! Best of luck and I hope the suggestions help. Happy Holidays!

Big thanks for this advice!
I will look into this app, hope that in the end something will help us to take a bit control under our kid. I also know that we should give him freedom, but this is a question of life safety

[kehlis]

Quote: Originally Posted by JohnyBlacks

He is 14 years old now

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So we’re to believe you're 21 and have a son that was born when you were 7?

Don’t forget you entered your birthdate when signing up and 1999 lines up with 21 years old (probably 22 now).

[BurghFan]

I saw the title of this thread and the first thing I thought of was the Evan_OS thing a few years back. I don't remember if it was its own thread or not and thought maybe a spambot had bumped it if it was in its own thread

Then I see it's a different user who just started the thread today

Then detective Kehlis comes through with the revelation that the OP who supposedly has a 14 y/o son is himself only 21 y/o

...

[JohnyBlacks]

What? How I can be a spambot if I already have more than 10 posts,bruh..
While registering I just didn`t pay attention to the birthday date, that`s it.
I am 37y old at the moment