Hello, my name is RomeroXVII.
I'm going to help you put your thoughts together in a coherent matter where everybody can understand you. This may not be school, but it is imperative that you type things in a way where we don't have to search through virtual hieroglyphics to understand what you were trying to say.
Based on what I can make out from your paragraph, there are multiple reasons why your fakes aren't working:
You're being extremely predictable in the directions you are faking.
You are not using strikes to build grapple advantage prior to your fakes.
You are likely trying to deny too soon against your opponent, or denying the wrong direction and when you do that, you give THEM Grapple Advantage and you slow your own transitions down as punishment.