I'm 44, married with 4 kids. Full time corporate day job plus a part time (12-14 hours/week) job.
I try to balance all this while mixing in my favorite hobby/down time activity, which happens to be sports video gaming. I do find myself unnecessarily justifying my gaming with my in-laws and other folks at times cuz I ask myself if I should have "moved on" from video gaming by now. Yeah, at times other tasks go undone cuz I put gaming ahead of them-which leads directly to the "lazy" label I suppose. But the grass can wait another couple days, right??!!
And I do agree, there are much worse things a guy could be doing with his off time.
And hey, if EA had put out a decent next/new gen Madden by now, if The Show was available on the 360, and if APFootball had a Franchise mode, my time playing video games would have maybe doubled by now...so I guess I should actually thank them all! (couldn't resist).
IT'S WHAT WE DO