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40-year old coach weds 16-year old girl
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Join Date: Apr 2001
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What happened to when parents told their kids not to go out and be home or else? And why let her marry him if she's destroying her life? To formalize her silliness?
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Join Date: Jan 2001
Location: Decatur, GA
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Why in the Hell did they sign those consent forms?! I realize it was tough that their daughter wouldn't speak to them, but for God's sake, think about what is best in the long term. She's 16, FFS... by 18 (I assume that's legal age) she may realize how silly she was.
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Head Coach
Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Hometown of Canada
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Yeah, that's dumb. Why sign the consent forms? I also found the sample e-mail they quoted to be worded kinda different for how I thought 16-year-olds wrote e-mails to friends.
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Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Wisconsin
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Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Green Bay, WI
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Three things.
1) If this was a case of 'Wendy, but wait, let's make it *special* and name her 'Windy' instead," then I can't help but feel like they got the karmic kick in the ass that parents like that deserve. 2) The hell? When did 'no' become a forbidden word when dealing with your children? 3) He resigned, rather than get fired. So now she's married this jobless dude, and if he's a track coach, I have to wonder what his job prospects look like. Is he even hireable material at a school again? |
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Join Date: Apr 2001
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Join Date: Apr 2001
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I wonder how good she must've been if he told her "no baby, you're so good that you should be running laps around my house getting the laundry, rather than on the track."
Some coach. |
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Join Date: Jan 2002
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This thread needs pictures of that pole vaulter chick.
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Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: The Satellite of Love
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Join Date: Oct 2000
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I saw this story today and about threw up. What twisted parents and what a sick bastard track coach that guy is. Signing the consent forms? I wouldn't sign a damned thing, but I would be kicking someones ass.
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Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Hometown of Canada
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Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Green Bay, WI
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Join Date: Oct 2003
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I know of a family that went through something similar. As a junior in HS their daughter started dating the track coach at her Catholic School...it went on for over a year until the school found out and fired him. They continued to see each other, she ended up graduating and going on to college, still seeing him. Got pregnant, they got married and now have 4 kids, they've been together for 17 or 18 years now. The age difference wasn't as big, I think he's only 8 or 10 years older than her, but still...the family was devastated. They came around eventually and all get along now, but it was very rough for a good 3 - 5 years.
Ironically, about 4 or 5 years ago the parents split and the mother became a lesbian, dating and living with a woman named Frost, who supposedly "recruited" her into the lifestyle. |
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Join Date: Oct 2000
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Join Date: Nov 2002
Location: New Jersey
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Ditto that. I can't imagine ever being so "tired" or worn down that I would ever sign a consent form for my 16 year old daughter to marry anyone, particularly a man well over twice her age. |
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Join Date: Jul 2001
Location: Not Delaware - hurray!
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She's probably peekin' out from under a stairway, calling a name that's lighter than air, and bending down to give me a rainbow as we speak.
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Join Date: Jul 2001
Location: Not Delaware - hurray!
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I wonder what pitch Frost used? Team prestige? Playing time?
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Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: TX
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"ruining your life" is the most overused statement ever. haveing a kid at a young age isnt ruining your life. getting married at a young age isnt ruining it. going to jail isnt ruining it. and not going to college isnt ruining a life
but naming your child Windy or after a fruit or landmark will ruin it ![]() Last edited by bulletsponge : 06-22-2007 at 06:22 PM. |
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Join Date: Jan 2001
Location: Phoenix, AZ
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I worked with a woman in South Carolina who got pregnant by her 30 year old boyfriend when she was 14 and they married. Her parents almost killed him but like these parents allowed the marriage though the families were estranged for a while. When I knew her she was 30 and had 5 kids and still loved her husband and the families had reconciled . I'm not saying that this is a good thing but just saying, you never know. It's not anything I'd ever do but I'm far from someone who should be judging others personal decisions that don't affect my life in even a tangental way. Of course, in the Carolinas there were a lot of marriages with big age differences so it's less socially taboo but she's the only one I was aware of who entered the relationship as a minor which is the actual issue here.
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Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: San Jose, CA
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Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Herndon, VA
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I used to work with a female who moved out of her parents house and moved in with one of her father's friends (former friends, I guess) on the day that she turned 16. They'd had a secret affair before she turned 16, her parents were shocked when she moved in with the guy, they had no idea.
I knew her a few years later, by then she was about 22-ish, he was in his 60's. When we met him the big shock was that it wasn't a Sean Connery type that had whisked away this youngster, but a little bald man with a huge beer-belly. There's hope for us all ![]() Last edited by Critch : 06-22-2007 at 06:49 PM. |
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Join Date: Jan 2002
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I'm starting to have second thoughts about naming my daughter "Slushy Rain Blizzard",
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Join Date: Dec 2003
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Fuckin A, if some 36 year old ever tries to be too friendly with one of my girls, I will be kicking his fucking ass. Stupid parents though, no way in hell do I sign some consent form. I'd send her to military school first.
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Join Date: Oct 2000
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Maybe it'll work, who the hell knows. But if it's the right thing for both of them, they could wait until she was 18 and finished HS. There is no way in hell I'd sign the consent forms.
You can't control what your kids do all the time. Sometimes saying no doesn't work. But when you compromise your values and sign something you don't believe in, it tells me a lot about the way you raised your kid to begin with. |
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Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: TX
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my guess is young girls that go for way older men are looking for a father because thier real one is lousy. but that might not be the case for all
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Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: TX
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you have a teenage daughter? hmmm... pic plz ![]() ![]() Last edited by bulletsponge : 06-22-2007 at 08:20 PM. |
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Join Date: Sep 2004
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FWIW, I don't find anything wrong with the age difference here... I do think, however, that they should've waited.
The more and more time I spend in college, the more and more I realize that it's often not until the mid 20s that women figure their shit out.
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Join Date: Nov 2003
Location: California
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My daughter is 12. If this happens in the next 4 years, I will take her phone and move her to another school. I would then tell her that if they kept in contact after that, I would notify the school system and police. At 18 she can decide who she wants to marry.
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Location: Ohio
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Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: New Mexico
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Style of play. |
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I wouldn't wait, I'd call police immediately. |
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Join Date: Feb 2003
Location: Seattle
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What? No one is a fan of true love anymore?
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Join Date: Jan 2002
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Chmura for Prez?
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Join Date: Jan 2001
Location: Phoenix, AZ
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Most likely he's saying what I was saying, it's not the age difference ( 24 years ) that's an issue. The age of the child is an issue but he's not really saying it isn't nor is he saying that a 40 year old and a 16 year old should hook up but that there is no problem if a 25 year old hooks up with a 49 year old. At least that's how I read his post.
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Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Astoria, NY, USA
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whilst watching some pornography, i got to thinking: if you marry a girl whose mom is single, and your single dad marries your wife's mom - does that make your wife's mom your stepmom-in-law?
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Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: North Carolina
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I read it as : "I wish there were 16-year-old girls willing to f*ck me. Or any girls for that matter."
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Harsh interpretation. ![]() Of course, if the poster was 16 too...
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