I’m such a pussy….a conversation with my girlfriend

Sharpieman · 05-20-2005, 05:14 AM

Talking to my girlfriend on the phone earlier today.

GF: Where were you last night? I called you like ten times!!! (In an angry voice)

Me: Out with my friends.
What I would like to say: Why does it matter?

GF: Well what were you doing with them that was so important that you couldn’t pick up your cell phone?

Me: Getting drunk.
What I would like to say: Fucking another girl (just kidding of course)

GF: Oh, getting drunk!? Why do you need to drink in the first place?

Me: I dunno
What I would like to say: Because you’re my girlfriend.

GF: Sometimes you can be such as dick. I had a really hard day and I needed to blah blah blah etc etc….

Me: I’m sorry, you’re right. I won’t do it again.
What I would like to say: Sorry, gotta go get drunk again.

GF: I don’t want to talk to you anymore (hangs up)

Me: ….. (hangs up)
What I would like to say: Thank God. Can't wait for the make up sex though!

Blackadar · 05-20-2005, 05:36 AM

yes, you are a pussy

wade moore · 05-20-2005, 06:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Blackadar

yes, you are a pussy

Finally, something I can agree with blackie on!

Noop · 05-20-2005, 06:23 AM

If your a pussy then a couple of dicks are waiting.

Blackadar · 05-20-2005, 06:41 AM

DPDA ALL THE WAY, BABY!

Balldog · 05-20-2005, 06:44 AM

Why do women always have to cry about having bad days?

I mean as a guy, if I have a bad day I never felt the need to bitch about it to my woman.

She couldn't have called a friend, her mom, sister, etc???

Noop · 05-20-2005, 06:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Balldog

Why do women always have to cry about having bad days?

I mean as a guy, if I have a bad day I never felt the need to bitch about it to my woman.

She couldn't have called a friend, her mom, sister, etc???

Bro I have seen you make some posts on this board. If you cry to her then guess what you will be lonely and having a bad day. With that said anymore text message stories?

http://dynamic2.gamespy.com/~fof/for...ad.php?t=30575

http://dynamic2.gamespy.com/~fof/for...ad.php?t=28883

Balldog · 05-20-2005, 06:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Noop

Bro I have seen you make some posts on this board. If you cry to her then guess what you will be lonely and having a bad day. With that said anymore text message stories?

http://dynamic2.gamespy.com/~fof/for...ad.php?t=30575

http://dynamic2.gamespy.com/~fof/for...ad.php?t=28883

Those are posted with generally with good humor intended.

Noop · 05-20-2005, 06:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Balldog

Those are posted with generally with good humor intended.

So are mine

I was just poking a lil fun at ya. No harm intended....

Balldog · 05-20-2005, 07:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Noop

So are mine

I was just poking a lil fun at ya. No harm intended....

I just reread the turning point thread, funny stuff.

Ksyrup · 05-20-2005, 07:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Balldog

Why do women always have to cry about having bad days?

I mean as a guy, if I have a bad day I never felt the need to bitch about it to my woman.

She couldn't have called a friend, her mom, sister, etc???

Don't ask why, just accept that it will always happen.

And guess what? She thought she was calling a friend, not just her fuck-buddy.

You guys have a long way to go before you come as close (1 million light years) to understanding women as some of us do. You should at least pick up the basics so that you can fake it well.

Blackadar · 05-20-2005, 07:13 AM

MAYDAY MAYDAY!!!

EJECT! EJECT!

Balldog · 05-20-2005, 07:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Ksyrup

You guys have a long way to go before you come as close (1 million light years) to understanding women as some of us do. You should at least pick up the basics so that you can fake it well.

If it was that important she should have left a message, when I am out with the guys and a girl calls I don't answer. If she leaves a message then check it, if its then determined important then call back.

Blackadar · 05-20-2005, 07:16 AM

Blackadar · 05-20-2005, 07:17 AM

Blackadar · 05-20-2005, 07:19 AM

Balldog · 05-20-2005, 07:29 AM

Ksyrup · 05-20-2005, 07:36 AM

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Originally Posted by Balldog

If it was that important she should have left a message, when I am out with the guys and a girl calls I don't answer. If she leaves a message then check it, if its then determined important then call back.

There's the problem - you wouldn't have considered what she was calling about to be important, but she obviously did, which is why she called 10 times! What was she going to say, "I had a bad day and really need to talk?" You would have called back? Or, would you have played the message for your friends and laughed?

It definitely depends on how serious the relationship is, but even going back to my pre-marriage days with my wife, had she called several times, I would have called back once just to tell her I'd call the next day. Then again, I don't consciously ignore phone calls, regardless of whether they're from a friend, my wife, or a family member, when I can otherwise take the call. Just seems kinda rude.

Ksyrup · 05-20-2005, 07:37 AM

Maybe we need to start at thread called, "How long to ignore?"

Blackadar · 05-20-2005, 07:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Ksyrup

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Did you say something?

oykib · 05-20-2005, 07:39 AM

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Originally Posted by wade moore

Finally, something I can agree with blackie on!

Thirded!

Just tell her, "Look... You can do the clingy girlfriend thing if you want to. But, then, I'll have to do the jealous boyfriend thing. So we'll have a perfectly pathetic co-dependent thing going."

If she doesn't get it after that, then start looking for a new GF on the sly.

Ksyrup · 05-20-2005, 07:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Blackadar

Did you say something?

Not to you.

Blackadar · 05-20-2005, 07:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Ksyrup

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Huh?

oykib · 05-20-2005, 07:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Ksyrup

There's the problem - you wouldn't have considered what she was calling about to be important, but she obviously did, which is why she called 10 times! What was she going to say, "I had a bad day and really need to talk?" You would have called back? Or, would you have played the message for your friends and laughed?

Or, maybe, everything that's imporant to your girlfriend doesn't have to be important to you and vice versa. A boyfriend is not a security blanket.

As it turns out, Sharpieman's GF wasn't calling about anything urgent. So why should he have put his life on hold?

Blackadar · 05-20-2005, 07:47 AM

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Originally Posted by oykib

As it turns out, Sharpieman's GF wasn't calling about anything urgent. So why should he have put his life on hold?

So he could get laid later? Is there any other reason!?!

Ksyrup · 05-20-2005, 07:52 AM

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Originally Posted by oykib

Or, maybe, everything that's imporant to your girlfriend doesn't have to be important to you and vice versa. A boyfriend is not a security blanket.

As it turns out, Sharpieman's GF wasn't calling about anything urgent. So why should he have put his life on hold?

That's why it's called a relationship. If she's your girlfriend, she considers herself a part of your life, regardless of whether you think you're entitled to cut her out of it every so often.

Look, I'm just offering an answer (really in response to balldog more than to sharpie) for "why" women are the way they are. The answer is because they think differently than men. I thought that was fairly obvious, but maybe not. So you either accept it, or deal with it, but don't bitch about it.

Noop · 05-20-2005, 07:53 AM

Ksyrup looks like you have been trained well.

I understand women.... yeah I understand that they are highly irrational and attention whores who think the world revolves around them. Yeah I understand that when its their birthday your suppose to go all out and get her nice things well priced of course. In fact I understand women so well they think a blowjob is a great present for your birthday, Christmas and of your anniversary. Yep I think I got it all figured out when you hang up with a woman ten minutes later she calls and says I missed you. Right... I understand women.

Ksyrup · 05-20-2005, 07:56 AM

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Originally Posted by oykib

As it turns out, Sharpieman's GF wasn't calling about anything urgent.

And again, another misreading of her call. I know that kind of thing isn't important to you, but it was important to her. That's why you deal with the pros and cons of being in a relationship - does the upside (however lewdly you want to define it

) outweigh the downside? Here, it sounds like some people don't even understand what the downside is and why it happens.

Ksyrup · 05-20-2005, 08:01 AM

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Originally Posted by Noop

Ksyrup looks like you have been trained well.

I understand women.... yeah I understand that they are highly irrational and attention whores who think the world revolves around them. Yeah I understand that when its their birthday your suppose to go all out and get her nice things well priced of course. In fact I understand women so well they think a blowjob is a great present for your birthday, Christmas and of your anniversary. Yep I think I got it all figured out when you hang up with a woman ten minutes later she calls and says I missed you. Right... I understand women.

I can't wait until you outgrow girls and fall for a real women who completely blows your stereotypes out of the water. That would make for a helluvan entertaining TV show.

Noop · 05-20-2005, 08:05 AM

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Originally Posted by Ksyrup

I can't wait until you outgrow girls and fall for a real women who completely blows your stereotypes out of the water. That would make for a helluvan entertaining TV show.

I sure hope she blows

Ksyrup · 05-20-2005, 08:11 AM

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Originally Posted by Noop

I sure hope she blows

When you're ready for a real relationship, you'll learn that that's the frosting, not the cake. Although it goes without saying that cake without frosting just isn't as tempting...

Blackadar · 05-20-2005, 08:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Noop

I sure hope she blows

Balldog · 05-20-2005, 08:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Ksyrup

And again, another misreading of her call. I know that kind of thing isn't important to you, but it was important to her. That's why you deal with the pros and cons of being in a relationship - does the upside (however lewdly you want to define it

) outweigh the downside? Here, it sounds like some people don't even understand what the downside is and why it happens.

You don't think that she might have called just to establish her dominance, for lack of a better word. Women are not plain and simple, black and white, they are all different. I know plenty of guys that have serious girls that pull this shit on them when its guy's night out or whatever. I also know plenty of guys that serious girls that know not to call on guy's night out unless there was an accident or death in the family, a real emergency.

I know what you are saying but not all women are pleasant little angels.

Ksyrup · 05-20-2005, 08:36 AM

Not saying they are, but if that's what you've gotten yourself into, then drop her. Don't bitch when she pulls that kind of stunt. Or, if she's being honest, don't bitch when she expects you to be there for her and you're not. Either way, you can be the one in control, instead of having to deal with damage control.

JeeberD · 05-20-2005, 08:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Sharpieman

Me: I’m sorry, you’re right. I won’t do it again.
What I would like to say: Sorry, gotta go get drunk again.

This is where I always get into trouble. While my GF wants me to say what Sharpie said (plus perhaps "I'll work on it."), I usually try to tell her exactly why I did what I did or said what I said. Then she just gets more angry because "I'm not listening to her."

Women

mhass · 05-20-2005, 08:57 AM

Not knowing the people involved obviously, my opinion ain't worth much, but I'm going to bet you that call #1 and possibly call #2 were about her bad day. Calls 3 through 10 were about locating Sharpie and general misery-making for him not answering. This, anyway, is a common tactic among many ex's of mine.

st.cronin · 05-20-2005, 08:58 AM

This thread is why I don't own a cell phone.

oykib · 05-20-2005, 08:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Ksyrup

And again, another misreading of her call. I know that kind of thing isn't important to you, but it was important to her. That's why you deal with the pros and cons of being in a relationship - does the upside (however lewdly you want to define it

) outweigh the downside? Here, it sounds like some people don't even understand what the downside is and why it happens.

What I'm getting at is that you define your relationship. I don't go in for all that co-dependant bullshit. I'm not my GF's security blanket.

I talk to my girl because I like talking to her. But If I'm drinking with my boys I don't answer the phone or pick it up and tell her I'm busy.

If you don't let your girl think that ridiculous behavior is okay, then she won't do it.

Sharpieman · 05-20-2005, 09:01 AM

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Originally Posted by Ksyrup

Don't ask why, just accept that it will always happen.

And guess what? She thought she was calling a friend, not just her fuck-buddy.

You guys have a long way to go before you come as close (1 million light years) to understanding women as some of us do. You should at least pick up the basics so that you can fake it well.

I fake it very well. And btw, it may seem like I'm a total ass for thinking the things I was thinking, but in the end I treat her like a queen and she treats me like a king. Its all good

Anthony · 05-20-2005, 09:02 AM

well, my take is this:

your GF should respect your boundaries, and respect your time with your boys. my wife calls me when i'm with my friends, but it's only just to say she's going to bed or that she's with such and such person/family and what she plans on doing. that's all. when you're in a relationship with someone the good thing is if you don't get to have conversation time with them on one day, you can have conversation time with them on another.

that being said, if someone is calling me 10 times i'm gonna think something is up that would necessitate that person calling me 10 times. my friends and wife know to text message me, cuz i'm not really a check my voice mail kind of guy (i despise voice mail and my greeting message even requests people text message me if they have something important to say). if after you get in touch with her and you find out she wants to chit chat, that's when i'd say "i'm not really able to conversate right now, sorry you had a bad day, we can talk about it when i get home/tomorrow".

but you're her BF, if her needs aren't important to you then you should reexamine why you're in a relationship with her.

Ksyrup · 05-20-2005, 09:04 AM

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Originally Posted by oykib

If you don't let your girl think that ridiculous behavior is okay, then she won't do it.

There are very few women who would consider this to be "ridiculous behavior." You (the general you) are defining the behavior from a man's PoV. If you've got a GF who is as independent as you or who can accept that, great. I hardly think that's a majority of women in relationships, though.

Anyway, when asking "why" a woman would react the way this one did, the answer seems obvious to me. That's was my main motivation for posting in this thread - not to suggest everyone needs to kow tow to their girlfriend's needs, but to say, "well, duh, she's a chick - you were expecting her to react differently?"

Ksyrup · 05-20-2005, 09:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Hell Atlantic

but you're her BF, if her needs aren't important to you then you should reexamine why you're in a relationship with her.

Did someone hijack HA's account?

Agree 100%. Depends on the nature and seriousness of the relationship, of course, but to me, it's just a respect/caring thing. And it sounds like Sharpie didn't tell her where he was, so it wasn't like she was just trying to ruin a night out with the guys. It also sounds like he didn't tell her because he knew she wouldn' be pleased with the answer, "I'm going out drinking with the guys." That's a whole other issue to deal with between BF and GF, but just answering the phone once, telling her you're "with friends" and that you'll call tomorrow, doesn't seem like a huge deal.

And again, not understanding how she would react afterwards seems a bit nuts to me...

Blackadar · 05-20-2005, 09:09 AM

GF: "Hello, is Sharpieman there? Where is he?!"

Sharpieman:

Samdari · 05-20-2005, 09:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Noop

In fact I understand women so well they think a blowjob is a great present for your birthday, Christmas and of your anniversary.

I WISH she thought that.

hhiipp · 05-20-2005, 09:19 AM

Special K got all sensitive in this thread. Kinda making me nauseous.

st.cronin · 05-20-2005, 09:21 AM

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Originally Posted by CamEdwards

I confess, I never really did understand guys bitching about the personality quirks of their girlfriends. If she's that annoying, dump her. It's not like you've made a lifetime commitment to this girl.

hear hear

rkmsuf · 05-20-2005, 09:21 AM

Once again this all gets back to the evil cell phone. I'm telling you they are the bane of society.

Even when you are out, you are not out.

CamEdwards · 05-20-2005, 09:21 AM

I confess, I never really did understand guys bitching about the personality quirks of their girlfriends. If she's that annoying, dump her. It's not like you've made a lifetime commitment to this girl.

Ben E Lou · 05-20-2005, 09:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Hell Atlantic

but you're her BF, if her needs aren't important to you then you should reexamine why you're in a relationship with her.

Ding. Ding. Ding. Game Over. We have a winnnnnnahhh.

st.cronin · 05-20-2005, 09:22 AM

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Originally Posted by rkmsuf

Once again this all gets back to the evil cell phone. I'm telling you they are the bane of society.

Even when you are out, you are not out.

hear hear

05-20-2005, 06:23 AM	#4
Noop Bonafide Seminole Fan Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Miami	If your a pussy then a couple of dicks are waiting. __________________ Subby's favorite woman hater.

05-20-2005, 07:29 AM	#17
Balldog Pro Rookie Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Macomb, MI	lol

05-20-2005, 07:37 AM	#19
Ksyrup This guy has posted so much, his fingers are about to fall off. Join Date: Nov 2000 Location: In Absentia	Maybe we need to start at thread called, "How long to ignore?" __________________ M's pitcher Miguel Batista: "Now, I feel like I've had everything. I've talked pitching with Sandy Koufax, had Kenny G play for me. Maybe if I could have an interview with God, then I'd be served. I'd be complete."

05-20-2005, 07:53 AM	#27
Noop Bonafide Seminole Fan Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Miami	Ksyrup looks like you have been trained well. I understand women.... yeah I understand that they are highly irrational and attention whores who think the world revolves around them. Yeah I understand that when its their birthday your suppose to go all out and get her nice things well priced of course. In fact I understand women so well they think a blowjob is a great present for your birthday, Christmas and of your anniversary. Yep I think I got it all figured out when you hang up with a woman ten minutes later she calls and says I missed you. Right... I understand women. __________________ Subby's favorite woman hater.

05-20-2005, 08:36 AM	#34
Ksyrup This guy has posted so much, his fingers are about to fall off. Join Date: Nov 2000 Location: In Absentia	Not saying they are, but if that's what you've gotten yourself into, then drop her. Don't bitch when she pulls that kind of stunt. Or, if she's being honest, don't bitch when she expects you to be there for her and you're not. Either way, you can be the one in control, instead of having to deal with damage control. __________________ M's pitcher Miguel Batista: "Now, I feel like I've had everything. I've talked pitching with Sandy Koufax, had Kenny G play for me. Maybe if I could have an interview with God, then I'd be served. I'd be complete."

05-20-2005, 05:36 AM	#2
Blackadar Retired Join Date: Oct 2000 Location: Fantasyland	yes, you are a pussy

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Blackadar Retired Join Date: Oct 2000 Location: Fantasyland	DPDA ALL THE WAY, BABY!

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Balldog Pro Rookie Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Macomb, MI	Why do women always have to cry about having bad days? I mean as a guy, if I have a bad day I never felt the need to bitch about it to my woman. She couldn't have called a friend, her mom, sister, etc???

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Blackadar Retired Join Date: Oct 2000 Location: Fantasyland	MAYDAY MAYDAY!!! EJECT! EJECT!

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mhass High School Varsity Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Here	Not knowing the people involved obviously, my opinion ain't worth much, but I'm going to bet you that call #1 and possibly call #2 were about her bad day. Calls 3 through 10 were about locating Sharpie and general misery-making for him not answering. This, anyway, is a common tactic among many ex's of mine. __________________ Now while I wasn't able to cut everyone I wanted to, I have cut a lot of you. - H.J.S.

05-20-2005, 08:58 AM	#37
st.cronin General Manager Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: New Mexico	This thread is why I don't own a cell phone.

05-20-2005, 09:02 AM	#40
Anthony Banned Join Date: Oct 2000 Location: Astoria, NY, USA	well, my take is this: your GF should respect your boundaries, and respect your time with your boys. my wife calls me when i'm with my friends, but it's only just to say she's going to bed or that she's with such and such person/family and what she plans on doing. that's all. when you're in a relationship with someone the good thing is if you don't get to have conversation time with them on one day, you can have conversation time with them on another. that being said, if someone is calling me 10 times i'm gonna think something is up that would necessitate that person calling me 10 times. my friends and wife know to text message me, cuz i'm not really a check my voice mail kind of guy (i despise voice mail and my greeting message even requests people text message me if they have something important to say). if after you get in touch with her and you find out she wants to chit chat, that's when i'd say "i'm not really able to conversate right now, sorry you had a bad day, we can talk about it when i get home/tomorrow". but you're her BF, if her needs aren't important to you then you should reexamine why you're in a relationship with her. Last edited by Anthony : 05-20-2005 at 09:02 AM.

05-20-2005, 09:09 AM	#43
Blackadar Retired Join Date: Oct 2000 Location: Fantasyland	GF: "Hello, is Sharpieman there? Where is he?!" Sharpieman:

05-20-2005, 09:19 AM	#45
hhiipp College Prospect Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: OH	Special K got all sensitive in this thread. Kinda making me nauseous.

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rkmsuf Head Coach Join Date: Dec 2001	Once again this all gets back to the evil cell phone. I'm telling you they are the bane of society. Even when you are out, you are not out. __________________ "Don't you have homes?" -- Judge Smales Last edited by rkmsuf : 05-20-2005 at 09:22 AM.

05-20-2005, 09:21 AM	#48
CamEdwards Stadium Announcer Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Burke, VA	I confess, I never really did understand guys bitching about the personality quirks of their girlfriends. If she's that annoying, dump her. It's not like you've made a lifetime commitment to this girl. __________________ I don't want the world. I just want your half.

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