05-15-2003, 04:49 PM | #51 | ||
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Agreed
HARRRRR!!!
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05-15-2003, 08:10 PM | #52 |
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Geez, when will people learn? Long distance relationships DO NOT WORK! I don't care if it is just for the summer. They've been together for 3 months. Now they face at least 3 months in a long distance relationship. Her ex has not running competition. He gets to spend 24/7 doing his best to break her down, and your friend can't do a thing about it.
I agree with G-Dawg, she wants someone at home and someone at school. Kick her to the curb. |
05-15-2003, 08:10 PM | #53 |
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dola,
going limp.... |
05-15-2003, 08:20 PM | #54 | |
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well i'll think i'll disagree with you here. My girlfriend lives up in Vermont and is going to be something like 3 and a half hours away for the summer. Granted her ex doesn't play into this at all, but i'm confident that this will work until she goes back to school in late august(she goes to school near me). annnnyway I do agree with everyone else. Cut this chick loose. If you can't trust her it won't work. Simple as that |
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05-15-2003, 08:25 PM | #55 | |
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HARRRRRRRR!! |
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05-15-2003, 08:42 PM | #56 |
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I agree with see her once more, cornhole her, then break up with her, then next school year cornhole it again. Repeat every school year until she
a)wants to marry you. (Run) b)wants to break up with you(Yippie) c)has a weird thing resembling a child that came from her butt from the cornhole loving.
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05-15-2003, 09:43 PM | #57 | |
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I'm assuming this was a somewhat lame attempt at a joke. To quote from the second paragraph: "As somebody who used to be a magnet for girls like this before I got married back in the late 19th century..." I've been married for 17 years now. I will stand by my contention in his case: A guy who has broken up with a girl just three months before, and has confessed still having feelings for her, and then lies in bed with her...trust me, he boffed her. If not the first night, definitely the second (and I'd lay good money on the first, personally). Frankly, this girl, if she was truly serious about MrBug (or his friend, whichever it is), would have never put herself in this situation if it hadn't been her intention to do a number on him.
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05-16-2003, 12:39 AM | #58 |
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It isn't me guys, really. My friend does thank you for all the advice
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05-16-2003, 07:34 AM | #59 | |
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For whatever reason, this is how I first processed this paragraph..... |
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05-16-2003, 08:12 AM | #60 | |
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05-16-2003, 08:54 AM | #61 | |
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Well that's probably not far from the truth either, eh? HARRRRRR!!!!!!!
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05-16-2003, 08:59 AM | #62 | |
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Yep, this is my thought as well. Glad I was never like that, but maybe that's just me. Don't get me wrong, I have a few female coworkers that are nothing but friends, but trust me, if I weren't married, there's a couple of them I'd want to shag in a heartbeat.
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05-16-2003, 02:49 PM | #63 |
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Well, talked to my friend and such. He read a lot of the posts and thoughts and is giving her a week to show that he should even bother with her. He told her he doesn't trust her so it's up for her to really prove to him she loves him
She told him she's been hanging out with the other guy to see if she really loves my friend |
05-16-2003, 02:52 PM | #64 |
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Is it really someone else you are talking about? Well, you fooled us all by putting friends in "quotes" in the subject.
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05-16-2003, 02:54 PM | #65 | |
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It is now safe to say that your friend is a pathetically pussy-whipped douchebag. Was he a virgin before he banged this chick? She's going to f*ck him over. Repeatedly. End of story. |
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05-16-2003, 02:55 PM | #66 |
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That was the idea Samdari. But it is a friend, not me. Hell, I don't even have a girlfriend. Its Easy Mac's kleenex for me
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05-16-2003, 03:01 PM | #67 |
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"well i'll think i'll disagree with you here. My girlfriend lives up in Vermont and is going to be something like 3 and a half hours away for the summer. Granted her ex doesn't play into this at all, but i'm confident that this will work until she goes back to school in late august(she goes to school near me)."
Well, "long distance" is a relative term. I'm not sure I'd say 3 and 1/2 hours away is much of a long distance. At least not for me. But 8 hours to me is. Basically, once or twice a month I wouldn't mind driving 3 and 1/2 hours to hang with my girlfriend (if I had one). But 8 hours....no way. Also, how long have you been together? A relationship that has last for awhile will survive a temporary long distance relationship than one that started just a few months ago. And one more thing... "She told him she's been hanging out with the other guy to see if she really loves my friend" BULL----SHIT!!! I admit that I do not know your friend that the status of his 3 month relationship, but if people are doing their love tests after just 3 months, it sound more like they are looking for reasons to get out than test their love. Maybe after a year or two you spend a little time apart to make sure you really love the person you're with. But 3 months? I don't care how serious they think their relationship is, 3 months is way too short of a time to do your love tests. |
05-16-2003, 03:01 PM | #68 | |
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Wow...my girl bullshit detector just broke it was ringing so loud. |
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05-16-2003, 03:05 PM | #69 |
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C-lut!
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05-16-2003, 03:45 PM | #70 |
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Man....all these games and tests and "prove that you love me" and wait and see and.....who the hell needs that? Especially one you can't bang on a regular basis because of the logistical difficulties.
Start fresh...say to yourself, "It's Over." Take a deep breath, then pick up the phone and dial the girl you work right next to that you've been dying to call. She really wants you to.
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05-16-2003, 03:57 PM | #71 | |
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My wife and I dated for 6 years in a long-distance relationship and it worked out well. The only time I saw her for more than a weekend was during the summer and December break between semesters. The first 2 years, we were 4 hours apart, the next 4, we were 7-8 hours apart. It can work. But neither of us were particularly adventurous with others of the opposite sex during our relationship, so we were probably more committed to it than your typical 20-25 year olds are.
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05-16-2003, 06:43 PM | #72 | |
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Perfect advice dawgfan |
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05-16-2003, 10:47 PM | #73 |
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"My wife and I dated for 6 years in a long-distance relationship and it worked out well. The only time I saw her for more than a weekend was during the summer and December break between semesters. The first 2 years, we were 4 hours apart, the next 4, we were 7-8 hours apart. It can work. But neither of us were particularly adventurous with others of the opposite sex during our relationship, so we were probably more committed to it than your typical 20-25 year olds are."
Oh course there are exceptions to every rule. I find that in general, your typical 20-25 year old is too immature or unprepared to handle the stress and work (most namely, the trust factor) that goes into a long distance relationship... |
05-16-2003, 11:10 PM | #74 | |
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Re: My "friend" could use some advice
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Sorry bro but she's probably already sleeping with him. End it now before you get hurt any worse. It sucks, I know, but she needs to grow up and stop playing games. Find a better girl...or better yet... a better woman. Chicks like that will play games until they're blue in the face. |
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05-28-2003, 04:17 PM | #75 | |
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Did anyone notice that the "other guy" apparently wrote to Anne Landers today?
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05-28-2003, 05:46 PM | #76 |
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hmmm interesting...
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05-28-2003, 07:18 PM | #77 |
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I have learned that a woman always wants you more when you are moving away from her not hanging on to her.
IF YOU RELLY WANT HER BACK OR EVEN IF YOU DONT DO THIIS Just say I need some space to sort out the situation. Immediately start to date other girls and do not pine over this one. As soon as you get serious over another girl this bitch will be back. She wants to be with the other guy because he cheated on her and treats her like shit. I guarantee you she F***ed this guy when she slept in his bed. There were no couches in his pad? C'mon You want her, dump her, date others and she will be back. This is the classic low self esteem girl. She needs to know that you can get better so she will compete. Personally I would date others wait till she comes crawling back then F*** her and dump her again. She would like you even better. This worked for me on more than one occasion. One word of caution when she comes back and you sleep together wear two raincoats, if she really wants you she'll try to get pregnant. |
05-28-2003, 07:25 PM | #78 |
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Good advice Strait
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05-28-2003, 07:33 PM | #79 | |
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05-29-2003, 08:19 AM | #80 | |
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05-29-2003, 09:39 AM | #81 |
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Get out. If she is lying about this stuff after three months there is no reason to believe that it will get any better let alone stop all together. He should go find someone he can trust.
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