Awkward II

Flasch186 · 11-15-2005, 12:16 PM

SOOOOOOOOOO, The other day at the main office I happened to be joking with one of the younger office workers, SG about life, money, Bf, etc. I throw out there that he's single. She says so am I, hook us up, etc. etc. So I tell BF later that day that him and SG are getting married in a couple of weeks, yeah, it went that way with the joking. Anyways, so SG sends BF an email regarding this and I guess they begin communicating via email and eventually they go out. BTW GF was involved in the initial joking around with SG. SO, they go out and it is learned that SG is 10 years younger than BF. Well this is not the big deal, but now add this to the fact that SG is the duaghter of NG, a higher up in the company. uh oh, NG and the pres., and the VP go out drinking all the time. uh oh, pres and the VP, and the other VP basically can decide where BF and I go, and whether or not we will make any money down the line. So now I dont know what to do, BF wants to keep it under wraps since theyve gone out a bunch. SG doesnt want to keep it under wraps, or at least doesnt feel the need to, so that is a point of contention. With all the initial relationship tension it would be pretty hard to pull back on the reigns w/o hurting someone's feeling and feeling the repurcussions but if they go longer and it doesnt work out NG will learn of this and it could be suicide. What to do? I could apply some pressure but then i would be the bad guy. I should stay out of the way but if BF screws this up it could be bad for me, us. THEN, add in the fact that she is a member of the biggest church here in town which is also a very big political presence in the city along with the builders it just muddies the waters even more. THEN add in the fact that at that church pretty high up is one of our neighborhood neighbors and we keep in touch it even muddies the waters more. What if NN sees something at BF's house he/she shouldnt see? She lives far away from BF so the drive could be a hinderance to all this and I can just relax, plus she has to go home to take care of her new puppy so she cant stay over here too long. ugh.....what to do.

Wolfpack · 11-15-2005, 12:19 PM

Amazingly, I actually understood most of that. Your story-telling is improving.

As to your quandary...well...I can't offer much in the way of advice. Sorry.

Desnudo · 11-15-2005, 12:22 PM

I think you've learned why you shouldn't mix business with pleasure.

sachmo71 · 11-15-2005, 12:25 PM

too long

flere-imsaho · 11-15-2005, 12:34 PM

Needs more paragraphs.

sachmo71 · 11-15-2005, 12:35 PM

it's like a big box full o' text.

JonInMiddleGA · 11-15-2005, 12:57 PM

Needs:
1) More diagrams
2) More cowbell

Raiders Army · 11-15-2005, 12:58 PM

I come to FOFC for FOF, nothing else.

sachmo71 · 11-15-2005, 01:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by The Typer

one of our neighborhood neighbors

You're just adding words to throw people off, aren't you?

MIJB#19 · 11-15-2005, 01:25 PM

ping: flere

Flasch186 · 11-15-2005, 01:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sachmo71

You're just adding words to throw people off, aren't you?

no, theyre not technically a nieghbor since the dont live next door, they live further up the street and across the main neighborhood road, hence the neighborhood neighbor.

digamma · 11-15-2005, 01:32 PM

I'd just chill out and watch it all unfold. Worst case you get a little drama and we get another thread.

Fouts · 11-15-2005, 02:52 PM

Can you provide a link to the legend? I want to know what SG and NG are, I think I got BF and GF.

Swaggs · 11-15-2005, 02:59 PM

Zippo · 11-15-2005, 03:01 PM

too much work to just comprehend that story. It's almost like reading codes.

judicial clerk · 11-15-2005, 03:05 PM

I am gonna need pics to get a real idea of what you guys should do. But off the top of my head I woud say that BF does in fact need to marry this girl. Think of how well connected he will be.

I would be interested to read what franklinnoble's advice would be.

Schmidty · 11-15-2005, 03:07 PM

I still think Flasch's title should be "Attention Whore".

Antmeister · 11-15-2005, 03:09 PM

I am going to assume SG = single girl but what in the hell does NG stand for? Nature girl? Nudist girl?
Nippy Girl? Nasty Girl?

SackAttack · 11-15-2005, 03:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Antmeister71

I am going to assume SG = single girl but what in the hell does NG stand for? Nature girl? Nudist girl?
Nippy Girl? Nasty Girl?

NG = SG's father, so far as I can tell.

Antmeister · 11-15-2005, 03:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SackAttack

NG = SG's father, so far as I can tell.

But couldn't it also be the mother? I don't know. I just want to know what NG stands for.

ice4277 · 11-15-2005, 03:59 PM

That was too much work and not enough payoff.

Glengoyne · 11-15-2005, 04:29 PM

I've apparently missed enough of these that I didn't realize Flasch even had a BoyFriend.

Marathoner · 11-15-2005, 06:30 PM

This needs a stick figure diagram.

Groundhog · 11-15-2005, 07:13 PM

Is the answer 16, because that's what I came up with?

st.cronin · 11-15-2005, 07:21 PM

There are two lessons here: Dating is rarely worth the effort, and sequels are always disappointing.

Joe · 11-15-2005, 07:33 PM

Flasch, you are fucked and will unfortunately be out of a job when BF fucks it up with this girl.

11-15-2005, 12:57 PM	#7
JonInMiddleGA Hall Of Famer Join Date: Nov 2000 Location: Behind Enemy Lines in Athens, GA	Needs: 1) More diagrams 2) More cowbell __________________ "I lit another cigarette. Unless I specifically inform you to the contrary, I am always lighting another cigarette." - from a novel by Martin Amis

11-15-2005, 01:25 PM	#10
MIJB#19 Coordinator Join Date: Oct 2000 Location: Maassluis, Zuid-Holland, Netherlands	ping: flere __________________ * 2005 Golden Scribe winner for best FOF Dynasty about IHOF's Maassluis Merchantmen * Former GM of GEFL's Houston Oilers and WOOF's Curacao Cocktail

11-15-2005, 02:59 PM	#14
Swaggs Coordinator Join Date: Oct 2000	__________________ DOWN WITH HATTRICK!!! The RWBL Are you reading In The Bleachers?

11-15-2005, 03:07 PM	#17
Schmidty Coordinator Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: Early, TX	I still think Flasch's title should be "Attention Whore". __________________ Just beat the devil out of it!!! - Bob Ross

11-15-2005, 07:13 PM	#24
Groundhog Coordinator Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: Sydney, Australia	Is the answer 16, because that's what I came up with? __________________ Politics, n. Strife of interests masquerading as a contest of principles. --Ambrose Bierce

11-15-2005, 12:19 PM	#2
Wolfpack Pro Rookie Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Raleigh, NC	Amazingly, I actually understood most of that. Your story-telling is improving. As to your quandary...well...I can't offer much in the way of advice. Sorry.

11-15-2005, 12:22 PM	#3
Desnudo Coordinator Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Here and There	I think you've learned why you shouldn't mix business with pleasure.

11-15-2005, 12:25 PM	#4
sachmo71 The boy who cried Trout Join Date: Oct 2000 Location: TX	too long

11-15-2005, 12:34 PM	#5
flere-imsaho Coordinator Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Chicagoland	Needs more paragraphs.

11-15-2005, 12:35 PM	#6
sachmo71 The boy who cried Trout Join Date: Oct 2000 Location: TX	it's like a big box full o' text.

11-15-2005, 12:58 PM	#8
Raiders Army Coordinator Join Date: Oct 2000 Location: The Black Hole	I come to FOFC for FOF, nothing else.

11-15-2005, 01:32 PM	#12
digamma Torchbearer Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: On Lake Harriet	I'd just chill out and watch it all unfold. Worst case you get a little drama and we get another thread.

11-15-2005, 02:52 PM	#13
Fouts College Starter Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: California	Can you provide a link to the legend? I want to know what SG and NG are, I think I got BF and GF.

11-15-2005, 03:01 PM	#15
Zippo High School JV Join Date: Jan 2004	too much work to just comprehend that story. It's almost like reading codes.

11-15-2005, 03:05 PM	#16
judicial clerk College Benchwarmer Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Portland, OR	I am gonna need pics to get a real idea of what you guys should do. But off the top of my head I woud say that BF does in fact need to marry this girl. Think of how well connected he will be. I would be interested to read what franklinnoble's advice would be.

11-15-2005, 03:09 PM	#18
Antmeister Pro Starter Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: At the corner of Beat Street and Electric Avenue	I am going to assume SG = single girl but what in the hell does NG stand for? Nature girl? Nudist girl? Nippy Girl? Nasty Girl?

11-15-2005, 03:59 PM	#21
ice4277 Pro Rookie Join Date: Oct 2000 Location: Berkley, MI: The Hotbed of FOFC!	That was too much work and not enough payoff.

11-15-2005, 04:29 PM	#22
Glengoyne Grizzled Veteran Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Fresno, CA	I've apparently missed enough of these that I didn't realize Flasch even had a BoyFriend.

11-15-2005, 06:30 PM	#23
Marathoner High School JV Join Date: Nov 2005	This needs a stick figure diagram.

11-15-2005, 07:21 PM	#25
st.cronin General Manager Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: New Mexico	There are two lessons here: Dating is rarely worth the effort, and sequels are always disappointing.

11-15-2005, 07:33 PM	#26
Joe Pro Starter Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: Minneapolis	Flasch, you are fucked and will unfortunately be out of a job when BF fucks it up with this girl.

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