02-18-2004, 04:20 PM | #301 | ||
Morgado's Favorite Forum Fascist
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Greensboro, NC
|
Quote:
Quote:
__________________
The media don't understand the kinds of problems and pressures 54 million come wit'! |
||
02-18-2004, 04:22 PM | #302 | |
Banned
Join Date: Jan 2004
|
Quote:
They are related because they are both things that Chubby does not understand. |
|
02-18-2004, 04:22 PM | #303 |
Banned
Join Date: Jan 2004
|
Oh calm down, Chubby. I was kidding.
|
02-18-2004, 04:23 PM | #304 | |
College Starter
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Edmond, OK
|
Quote:
Agreed. Edited because I don't want to get in too deep. I just like poking my nose in on occasion. Last edited by Cuckoo : 02-18-2004 at 04:29 PM. |
|
02-18-2004, 04:23 PM | #305 | |
Coordinator
Join Date: Jan 2002
|
Quote:
__________________
Down Goes Brown: Toronto Maple Leafs Humor and Analysis |
|
02-18-2004, 04:25 PM | #306 | |
College Prospect
Join Date: Jan 2003
Location: St. John's, Newfoundland, Canada
|
Quote:
I don't understand why it has to be called something different? There's marriages being performed everyday by Judges for people who choose not to participate in organized religion... where is the big ruckus telling these people that they can't call their relationship marriage? Call it marriage all the way around. To me there's no real point in calling them different names. PS - Just to clear up something. I'm a strong proponent of allowing gays to marry, however I don't agree with a small minority of people saying that churchs should have to allow gays to marry. It's a private organization, it can choose to not allow "membership" based on anything it wants. |
|
02-18-2004, 04:27 PM | #307 | |
Morgado's Favorite Forum Fascist
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Greensboro, NC
|
Quote:
__________________
The media don't understand the kinds of problems and pressures 54 million come wit'! |
|
02-18-2004, 04:30 PM | #308 | |
College Prospect
Join Date: Jan 2003
Location: St. John's, Newfoundland, Canada
|
Quote:
Ok, then maybe I don't understand the argument Fritz and others are trying to present in saying what he did. Why does, letting gays marry somehow lead to allowing people who commit incest, or polygamy to marry. My understanding of the argument is that they are somehow related... |
|
02-18-2004, 04:32 PM | #309 | |
College Starter
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Edmond, OK
|
Quote:
Have you read this entire thread yet? Because you have to suffer through it to be in the discussion. |
|
02-18-2004, 04:35 PM | #310 | |
College Prospect
Join Date: Jan 2003
Location: St. John's, Newfoundland, Canada
|
Quote:
Just a question... if a religion performed a gay "union" in a church, and recoginized it, would you have a problem with that being called marriage? |
|
02-18-2004, 04:36 PM | #311 | |
College Prospect
Join Date: Jan 2003
Location: St. John's, Newfoundland, Canada
|
Quote:
Nope. But I'd be happy to look at a specific post if it could answer my question. |
|
02-18-2004, 04:38 PM | #312 | |
Grizzled Veteran
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Syracuse, NY
|
Quote:
Feel free to post proof of "ownership" over the word marriage, there was a discussion earlier (I believe in this thread) over how the concept of marriage was found on tablets that pre date christainity and every other religion we have. Then why does it have to be called a "civil union" to be ok? What's the difference? Again, this goes back to ownership over a word for which you have no right to claim as your own. |
|
02-18-2004, 04:39 PM | #313 | |
Morgado's Favorite Forum Fascist
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Greensboro, NC
|
Quote:
__________________
The media don't understand the kinds of problems and pressures 54 million come wit'! |
|
02-18-2004, 04:39 PM | #314 | |
Morgado's Favorite Forum Fascist
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Greensboro, NC
|
Quote:
__________________
The media don't understand the kinds of problems and pressures 54 million come wit'! |
|
02-18-2004, 04:40 PM | #315 | |
College Prospect
Join Date: Jan 2003
Location: St. John's, Newfoundland, Canada
|
Quote:
By anyone... |
|
02-18-2004, 04:42 PM | #316 | |
Morgado's Favorite Forum Fascist
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Greensboro, NC
|
Quote:
__________________
The media don't understand the kinds of problems and pressures 54 million come wit'! |
|
02-18-2004, 04:44 PM | #317 | |
Grizzled Veteran
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Syracuse, NY
|
Quote:
Excellent! So if it isn't yours, then who are you to say who can use it and who can't? |
|
02-18-2004, 04:48 PM | #318 |
College Prospect
Join Date: Jan 2003
Location: St. John's, Newfoundland, Canada
|
Ok, how about this, I'm always willing to comprimise ... we call them all "marriages," and if you get married within your church it will be known as a "religious marriage".....
|
02-18-2004, 04:51 PM | #319 | |
Morgado's Favorite Forum Fascist
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Greensboro, NC
|
Quote:
The car that my next-door neighbor drives is his. Let's suppose I saw a stranger sneaking into his yard, jimmying the lock, and obviously trying to hot-wire the car. Is the more appropriate response, a: Well, it isn't mine. Who am I to say who can use it and who can't. or b: Go in the house, get my phone and my firearm. Call the police, and keep the guy there until they arrive. The metaphor isn't perfect, but it conveys the idea well enough.
__________________
The media don't understand the kinds of problems and pressures 54 million come wit'! |
|
02-18-2004, 04:52 PM | #320 |
Coordinator
Join Date: Jan 2002
|
So when people suggest that they're uncomfortable with gay marriage but could accept civil unions, are you assuming that a civil union would include all the legal benefits of "real" marriage -- taxes, insurance, custody, benefits, etc?
__________________
Down Goes Brown: Toronto Maple Leafs Humor and Analysis |
02-18-2004, 04:52 PM | #321 | |
Morgado's Favorite Forum Fascist
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Greensboro, NC
|
Quote:
__________________
The media don't understand the kinds of problems and pressures 54 million come wit'! |
|
02-18-2004, 04:53 PM | #322 | |
Coordinator
Join Date: Jan 2002
|
Quote:
__________________
Down Goes Brown: Toronto Maple Leafs Humor and Analysis |
|
02-18-2004, 04:54 PM | #323 | |
Morgado's Favorite Forum Fascist
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Greensboro, NC
|
Quote:
Somehow people have classified me as being politically conservative. However, generally speaking, I tend to have rather libertarian views for the most part.
__________________
The media don't understand the kinds of problems and pressures 54 million come wit'! |
|
02-18-2004, 04:58 PM | #324 | |
Coordinator
Join Date: Jan 2002
|
Quote:
And if that's the case, the rest of the debate ("marriage" vs. "union") seems a lot like semantics.
__________________
Down Goes Brown: Toronto Maple Leafs Humor and Analysis |
|
02-18-2004, 04:59 PM | #325 | |
Grizzled Veteran
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Syracuse, NY
|
Quote:
Your metaphor isn't anywhere CLOSE to perfect. It's not even the same sport. Just so I have this right, you're equating the use of a word (for which you have already stated should only be used in the context for which YOU say it should) to someone stealing your neighbors car? Riiiiight, that's almost anywhere close to the same thing. We're not debating using "Christ" or "Koran" or something else specific to one religion. You've already said that same-sex marriages shouldn't be called marriages even if they were done in a church. Why? Who are you to say they can't be? And actually, if you DID go get your firearm and hold the guy hostage for trying to steal someone else's car I believe you too would be arrested as "vigilante justice" isn't exactly looked up to. |
|
02-18-2004, 05:00 PM | #326 | ||
General Manager
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: The Satellite of Love
|
Quote:
You mean he wasn't saying that? Damn, I have to go apologize to someone... Quote:
Being libertarian seems to be the new fad around here. There was a time when I was the only one admitting it, now everyone's doing it. I know, I'm a trend setter. |
||
02-18-2004, 05:00 PM | #327 |
Coordinator
Join Date: Aug 2001
Location: Buffalo, NY
|
I think it very hypocritical to simply accept a difference in nomenclature as the answer to this situation.
Marriage a ritualized joining of 2 people into the legally recognized bonding to one another. Civil Union the legal bonding of 2 people to one another. Now if in fact both of these titles represent the same issue on a legal basis: Why then do we need legislation to seperate them? Those with religious beliefs will call themselves married, those without will call theirs a civil union, but they will all have the same rights. So why bother with a name/label sanctifying law? Again let me bring out the fact that those people who want to allow civil unions do NOT want them to be legally on par with Marriage. The wording of amendmants and challenges to same sex marriages consistaly limits legal protection to "married" couples, while civil unions gain nothing but recognition and a name. Just renaming things without the legal weight to enforce the couples rights, no matter the combination of male and female in the couple, is morally wrong. This country should not accept any attempt at writing discrimination into its laws. And from watching debates and reading articles, I'm hoping the trend I see is that common sense and equality under the law will prevail over personal opinion of right and wrong. |
02-18-2004, 05:02 PM | #328 | |
Grizzled Veteran
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Syracuse, NY
|
Quote:
and the semantics part boils down to one religion trying to lay claim to a word for which it doesn't "own". "we don't care what you do but you can't use OUR word" is basically their argument. |
|
02-18-2004, 05:03 PM | #329 | ||
Morgado's Favorite Forum Fascist
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Greensboro, NC
|
Quote:
1. Person A owns something. 2. Person B is 100% positive that person A owns that something. If Person B observes someone taking something that belongs to person A, his reaction (by your logic above) should seem to be "Well, it isn't mine, so who am I to say who can use it." Quote:
__________________
The media don't understand the kinds of problems and pressures 54 million come wit'! |
||
02-18-2004, 05:06 PM | #330 | |
Morgado's Favorite Forum Fascist
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Greensboro, NC
|
Quote:
__________________
The media don't understand the kinds of problems and pressures 54 million come wit'! |
|
02-18-2004, 05:07 PM | #331 | |
Morgado's Favorite Forum Fascist
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Greensboro, NC
|
Quote:
Actually, I've leaned that way for quite some time, just without using the word. I even voted for Browne in 2000.
__________________
The media don't understand the kinds of problems and pressures 54 million come wit'! |
|
02-18-2004, 05:10 PM | #332 | |
Head Coach
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: North Carolina
|
Quote:
Well, I'm with you big guy. Let the government be in the civil union business (for everyone). Let the religions be in the marriage business (for whomever they want). With this kind of fair, evenhanded approach to controversial policy issues, you are a shoo-in for a second term as H.N.I.C. |
|
02-18-2004, 05:12 PM | #333 | |
Grizzled Veteran
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Syracuse, NY
|
Quote:
does anyone "own" the word marriage? we've already established you don't, but I guess we need to be specific since you could have been talking literally. |
|
02-18-2004, 05:14 PM | #334 | |
Morgado's Favorite Forum Fascist
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Greensboro, NC
|
Quote:
__________________
The media don't understand the kinds of problems and pressures 54 million come wit'! |
|
02-18-2004, 05:16 PM | #335 | |
Grizzled Veteran
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Syracuse, NY
|
Quote:
(and basically having the same discussion in 2 threads is totally throwing me off) Waiting... |
|
02-18-2004, 05:19 PM | #336 | |
Morgado's Favorite Forum Fascist
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Greensboro, NC
|
Quote:
__________________
The media don't understand the kinds of problems and pressures 54 million come wit'! |
|
02-18-2004, 05:19 PM | #337 | |
College Benchwarmer
Join Date: Aug 2002
Location: Avondale, AZ, USA, Planet Earth, Milky Way Galaxy
|
Quote:
The problem with this distinction is that the horse has been out of the barn so long that it's been ground up for glue and Alpo. Mrs. Gawd and I are a classic case. We're a mixed religion couple. I come from a Protestant background, she comes from an Eastern European Jewish heritage. Neither one of us has a whole lot of time for organized religion (though I do consider myself spiritual), so we were equally uncomfortable with marriage in a synagogue or a church. We married in a conference room at a local resort in a civil ceremony. It's still called a marriage. They don't call the buckskin we got a "civil union" certificate. Yet organized religion played no part in our marriage. It is ridiculous to make this distinction. It won't ever seep into common practice, and frankly, it's splitting hairs at best in any case. And the trouble is there are a whole lot of people on the religious right that probably aren't all that fired up about the notion of "civil unions" either.
__________________
"I guess I'll fade into Bolivian." -Mike Tyson, after being knocked out by Lennox Lewis. Proud Dumba** Elect of the "Biggest Dumba** of FOFC Award" Author of the 2004 Golden Scribe Gold Trophy for Best Basketball Dynasty, It Rhymes With Puke. |
|
02-18-2004, 05:22 PM | #338 | |
College Benchwarmer
Join Date: Aug 2002
Location: Avondale, AZ, USA, Planet Earth, Milky Way Galaxy
|
Quote:
No, it isn't. Think about how many state and local laws would need to be changed to accommodate your "easily fixable" problem. Think about how many tens of millions of "civil union" certificates will need to be issued to existing people who married outside of churches. I also believe that the Bill of Rights will have a problem with a distinction, that whole separation of church and state thing.
__________________
"I guess I'll fade into Bolivian." -Mike Tyson, after being knocked out by Lennox Lewis. Proud Dumba** Elect of the "Biggest Dumba** of FOFC Award" Author of the 2004 Golden Scribe Gold Trophy for Best Basketball Dynasty, It Rhymes With Puke. |
|
02-18-2004, 05:25 PM | #339 | |
Morgado's Favorite Forum Fascist
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Greensboro, NC
|
Quote:
__________________
The media don't understand the kinds of problems and pressures 54 million come wit'! |
|
02-18-2004, 05:29 PM | #340 | |
Grizzled Veteran
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Syracuse, NY
|
Quote:
Exactly the reason your metaphor doesn't hold water to me. You maintain that marriage is christianity's word while I maintain it's nobodies word. I maintain that the government shouldn't be supporting a specific religion by writing laws that cater to what they want even if it makes people not equal. The whole thing is over the use of 1 word, I'm sorry but it's not your word. If "you" want to take say, baptism go right ahead. That's a word that is specific to christianity. There's a difference between that and marriage and is exactly the kind of thing that I and a lot fo people take as "trying to force your religion on us". By making it law, "you" want everyone to follow your belief system; that the word marriage is Christianity's alone. |
|
02-18-2004, 05:32 PM | #341 | |
Grizzled Veteran
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Syracuse, NY
|
Quote:
Most people aren't aware that the 1st amendment only protects them from the government and not on message boards but good luck trying to convince people I'm not a history person so I won't weigh in on where church and state is from. |
|
02-18-2004, 05:32 PM | #342 | |
Morgado's Favorite Forum Fascist
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Greensboro, NC
|
Quote:
__________________
The media don't understand the kinds of problems and pressures 54 million come wit'! |
|
02-18-2004, 05:38 PM | #343 | |
Grizzled Veteran
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Syracuse, NY
|
Quote:
|
|
02-18-2004, 05:39 PM | #344 | |
General Manager
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: The Satellite of Love
|
Quote:
Thomas Jefferson (Edit: James Madison (aka The Father of the Constitution) also used the phrase separation between church and state in describing the 1st admendment, but I think Thomas Jefferson was the first to use it, or at least it's from him that we have the earliest use of the phrase) Last edited by sabotai : 02-18-2004 at 05:44 PM. |
|
02-18-2004, 05:45 PM | #345 | |
Hall Of Famer
Join Date: Jan 2001
Location: Decatur, GA
|
Quote:
Doesn't matter. The Supreme Court read it into the 1st Amendment a looooooong time ago.
__________________
"A prayer for the wild at heart, kept in cages" -Tennessee Williams |
|
02-18-2004, 05:46 PM | #346 | |
Torchbearer
Join Date: Sep 2001
Location: On Lake Harriet
|
Quote:
The phrase doesn't appear, but I think the words "shall make no law regarding the establishment of religion" are pretty clear. We'll always argue about how to interpret that clause, but I think it pretty clearly sets up the idea of separation of church and state. Now back to trying to figure out what the hell who owns the word marriage has to do with anything.... |
|
02-18-2004, 05:50 PM | #347 | |
Morgado's Favorite Forum Fascist
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Greensboro, NC
|
Quote:
__________________
The media don't understand the kinds of problems and pressures 54 million come wit'! |
|
02-18-2004, 05:52 PM | #348 | |
Morgado's Favorite Forum Fascist
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Greensboro, NC
|
Quote:
__________________
The media don't understand the kinds of problems and pressures 54 million come wit'! |
|
02-18-2004, 06:11 PM | #349 | |
Grizzled Veteran
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Syracuse, NY
|
Quote:
hehe, I don't doubt that. I would still wager to say that some of them would still maintain that their 1st amendment rights were infringed upon. |
|
02-18-2004, 06:13 PM | #350 | |
Grizzled Veteran
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Syracuse, NY
|
Quote:
of course it does, you maintain that it should only be used in certain situations (religous ceremonies between one woman and one man). I ask you again, what gives you the right to say that one woman and another woman can't use that same word to describe their relationship which is no different than what you call a marriage? |
|
Currently Active Users Viewing This Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests) | |
Thread Tools | |
|
|