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I disagree, but that's not what worries me. I disagree because I'm almost 29, by the time I get over this and am ready to put myself back out there I'll be what...close to 30? And I've never been at all successful in attracting women at all, so why would that suddenly change once I had reached 30 and I was still single? If anything that'd be more of a red-flag against me. Which isn't helped by my negativey which arises from my situation. But like I said - that's not what I'm particularly worried about. The flip-side is what worries me more really - don't think anyone will fall in love with me. *shrug*
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Well first off, I'm putting in my request for those PM pics as well.
Secondly, I may not know exactly where you're coming from, but I can see your point. If you haven't had a lot of relationships or luck with women, you may be inclined to believe that this is better than nothing at all. But if you can't really trust her and you're not sure you really believe her, then you better emotionally divest yourself. In other words, if this can be just a fuckbuddy type of thing, that may work out. But the moment you get attached, you're setting yourself up to get played. And if you don't think you can remain emotionally unattached, I wouldn't even bother pursuing this. It'll just mess you up worse in the long run. Good luck though DT. You seem to be a genuinely nice guy, and I believe you deserve a genuinely nice girl.
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08-06-2008, 05:52 PM | #205 |
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Yeah I need to see if shes worth it, I need a PM, DT
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just PM me with your email addresses guys so I can add them to the list for when I send out the photos
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08-06-2008, 07:27 PM | #207 |
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*shrug*
I won't do a "friends" thing, and as for the rest - I don't know. That will really depend on what she has to say, how much she's willing to show that she's changed and express remorse and put effort into something. I honestly think that it'll likely to end up with me getting up and walking away from the table and leaving her sitting there, but ya know...at this point -- I kind of want to have that face-to-face moment. *shrugs* |
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cronin doesn't <3 me though - he didn't put me on his fucking list! douchebag!
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Come on, I KNOW you have my email address.
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08-06-2008, 09:46 PM | #211 |
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haha - Idk...i'll have to look in gmail
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yeah, cronin didn't put me on his list either, but I wasn't going to say anything. I didn't want to come off like a lovesick puppy (not that you are, DT). It was still a soul-crushing moment for me though.
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because this thread does not ever die apparently - so I hadn't heard from her apart from a couple phonecalls back in the fall. phonecalls where i essentially let her talk a little and didn't contribute anything to the conversation besides a grunt or a "uh huh" as something to keep the conversation moving. your basic conversational-courtesy. so that died out after a couple calls from her, after maybe a month. I pretty much made the decision to let it wither and die when she was like "man i get along really well with all the guys from california that i met while i've been out there traveling (the guy i discovered she was talking to before was from L.A. - thus leading me to the assumption that she "met" him). Got a text msg from her on like 12/26 that was like "merry xmas" or something - so i waited till the afternoon of the 27th to reply and said something clever - some holiday-type pleasantry, but i didn't say merry or happy. she sent me a text back saying like "give you a call new year's eve". I was like "ok." Figured I didn't really have much to say, but wtf. Maybe I'd tear into her or something.
Didn't hear from her then (yay!) and I was like "oh good - maybe she finally got the message that I don't really have anything to say to her and she'll go the fuck away." flash forward to...friday at like 1:30 when I get a text message on my cellphone. Literally took me a minute to figure out who it was from (deleted her number a couple months back) that said "go sox!" Seriously...really? WTF possesses you to send me a text message at this point? I honestly was thinking it was done and over with and I'd never hear from her again. Guess she just got bored or something...idk. Made me shake my head and feel...I guess...pity for her.
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05-05-2009, 01:53 AM | #214 |
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Please just delete that text, DT. Do not reply.
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Eh, it's one of those non-issue texts, the type of meaningless message that gets sent back and forth between people everyday.
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Not sure I agree, given the circumstances. I have an ex-gf that sends me these msgs from time to time, and I'm certain it's to make sure I don't forget about her.
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lol yup. way ahead of you. was just like "wow...that's sad...get a life and leave me alone already."
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yeah...i view the thought process as "watch me twist the knife that i stabbed you with in just a little bit deeper, to send that twinge of pain coursing through your body...just because i can."
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Awesome - LOL
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This one will hurt her deep into her selfish soul... when she texts you again ask her "Who is this" that lets her know you moved on... normally they will text their name and which point you stick the knife deep into her rotten soul and say "Oh ok" That will destroy her....watch.
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I wish. Let's say my current lady friend only sees me at night....take from that what you will.
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LOL - one/both of you are taking this too seriously
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proof you never know what you are going to get when you open a random thread.
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lol - you love my thread lathum!
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*bump*
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haha. i got several text messages on saturday - allegedly she claimed she was at somebody's house who had the BC-FSU game on...so she text messaged me. then she called me. i sat and listened to her inane babbling about nothing last night for...half an hour.
really didn't give anything back...the conversation was pretty much one-sided. still not sure why i picked up the phone - maybe because it's nice to be chased-after (even if it's only to be talked to ya know?). Then this morning i get to work and pull out my phone and see i have a "good morning" text message. Heh. So yeah...I got to quash this before she starts thinking we're like BFF or whatever. Think maybe it's time for "what do you want? why did you call me? Nah I didn't miss you at all or think of you. I was pretty much just like...pretending you were dead and it was working fine. So do me a favor and don't contact me again. Move on. You have nothing to offer that I need, or want."
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lol...yes yes.
hey...like i said - i was doing just fine on the "pretending she's dead" plan. it was quite nice. maybe she's operating under the delusion that her friendship has value to me at this point? LMAO
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But seriously, stop answering the phone when she calls. Do not reply to text messages. At this point you have no logical reason to talk to her at all, and by doing so you are just encouraging her to continue contacting you.
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yeah - i mean i guess i should just stop responding to her - i don't know...i just live in fear of "if she really is crazy she could make my life unpleasant" i suppose.
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she controls nothing, because she has nothing that i want. i on the other hand have something that she wants (my friendship or whatever). Therefore I am the one in control *evil cackle*
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Well, FWIW I think you are selling yourself short. At least earlier in this thread you were. Especially with the "I am old at 29 oh noes I will never find another woman bullshit". C'mon dude. As someone else said, men age very well, and most women prefer older men, especially when it comes to a serious relationship.
Trust me on this. I spent my entire twenties fucking women and drinking (not necessarily in that order). I look back at it now, and what a complete waste of time that decade was for me. I met my wife five years ago and couldn't be happier. Oh, and I am 6 1/2 years older than her. Give yourself some credit, a good woman is just around the corner. It just isn't the corner this bitch is standing on.
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