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well - had a rough lunch hour. just...started thinking too much or whatever. walking the same places i used to walk, that sort of thing.
lil...on-edge today. maybe it's because i figure if the bitch ever does intend to call me it will be tonight or sometime this weekend and i'm dreading that. and i know...there's a sizeable contingent of people that'd say "don't even pickup the phone if she calls" but i feel like it's almost better to pick up the phone than ignore her which might possibly piss her off and make her do something destructive towards me.
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yeah but what if i don't pick up the phone and she goes "well fine then i know where he works i'm going to call his boss and rat him out for spending hours a day talking to me?" because i denied her the satisfaction of idk...playing out whatever twisted endgame she had in mind? (and no it's not like i told her where i worked - she found out using google, it's not THAT hard)
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PINE CONES???? PINE CONES?????????????????
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If I got a call from some woman who wanted to tell me about one of my employees and how they were spending their free time, I'd think they were some crazy person trying to get back at my employee. If you're on good terms with your boss I really wouldn't worry about that. Are the Sox in town this weekend? Go see a game for me and hit on the chicks in the bleachers!
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05-30-2008, 03:19 PM | #113 | |
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of course i am overthinking this. LOL and cam - idk bout the sox, but there's a Celts game tonight - that should be quite distracting and hopefully good!
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When she does call, be nice and friendly. Act like nothing is wrong. When she asks "So what are you doing?" say "I just set up a fake account on ____ and was chatting with _____. (laughing) He told me some interesting things I was glad to find out about!"
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that's a good way to go about it. i was pretty much thinking of going with that or something basically the same. maybe letting her lie about it first and then whipping that out. present the accusation without any proof, let her lie and dig herself in nice and deep, and then whip out the proof
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Ronnie's got a point.
Better to take the high road. Showing any resentment is showing that she hurt you. In order to be hurt, you must have cared in the first place, which will only build her up. If you really want payback. Piss her off by simply not caring! When she calls, just say "There's nothing to talk about. Good luck with ____." Then hang up. When she calls back, tell her you're through with her and don't need to discuss it. Tell her "It wasn't working in the first place and I'm glad that you gave me this opportunity to move on." Always wish her well, even though you would love to hear an anvil fell out of the sky on her. |
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My solution: No matter what she says, or asks, just repeat one line over and over again:
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I like that way too. Whatever, it's immaterial...i don't think she'll even bother to call at this point, but i'll keep you all posted.
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05-30-2008, 06:28 PM | #123 |
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can I just send her a link to the travis tritt "here's a quarter call someone who cares" song?
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No. An email's a weaseldick way of dealing with her. IF, and only if, you decide you just HAVE to have it out, you've gotta go in and be a man about it. Rage, rage against the dying of the light of your relationship. Then storm out and don't answer her calls.
That being said, I don't advise it. There are too many chances for you (generic you, not saying you're particularly prone to this behavior) to fall into the weaseldick mode of "Why? Why'd you do it?" self-loathing and whining, and you definitely don't want to do that. Trust me, that'll fuck up your self-esteem far worse than anything she did.
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lol oh no I didn't mean just email it to her and be gone. I meant like...whatever...during the conversation if she was online at the same time or something. I'm not going to rage against the dying of it - I don't need a lying cheating whore in my life...and once a cheater always a cheater. I do feel slightly weaseldicky "why?" and "why'd you do it?" but I guess I'm coming to the realization that I probably won't get a straight answer that I can believe given the fact that she's a liar, and more than that, it really doesn't matter WHY so much, because the problem is with her. So yeah. anyways...whatever
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There's stuff I don't get here. Okay, I don't see the story here except that she's apparently a philandering whore. I assume DT you have good reason to believe this. Is this an acknowledged fact between you two, or does she still think you're cool with her? Your play out of her convo with you suggests a normal call from her. If she knows you know, why would she bother having a regular conversation with you (the "what are you doing" type of question)? If she doesn't know, why haven't you guys talked in, by my count at least four days? If you're this bent out about it, this must have been a strong relationship. And I have never heard of a relationship with that much emotion going four days without some kind of contact (unless there is a trip involved or something unavoidable to separate, etc.).
And the never told her where you work thing? That seems weird to me, too. What kind of relationship at this level doesn't have her knowing where you work? This seems to be an integral part of someone's life. Sorry to ask hard, inquisitive questions, but this all just strikes me as weird, and I figure I must be missing something. All that said, assuming you're right that she's a cheating her, glad you are moving on, and be glad you find out now rather than down the road after a more serious commitment.
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oh no i've told her where I work - she just didn't need me to tell her or anything...it's not that hard if you GIS my name + boston it's like right on the first page or something. She doesn't know that I know she's a philandering whore, no. But I have proof. Well, as much proof as one can have (i've talked to the guy without letting on who I was, and he admitted to it enthusiastically). And we haven't talked because she "had finals" (which I also believe to be a lie), and then she has been "dealing with some stuff" apparently. And as part of that same "dealing with stuff" thing she said something to the effect of "this isn't going to work. we'll talk." -- so I presume that's why she's not in a rush to talk to me to whatever...explain why it's not going to work.
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I am glad though. Glad I found out now and before I wasted anymore time (sorry i've been so absent from WW because of this cunt), and more importantly any significant $$, or factored her into my life decisions at all. And I'm totally done and moving on.
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yeah - well right now I am having a fun conversation with her about it. So that's...enjoyable. Not in a crying way or anything, just in a "I was definitely right. This chick needs to grow the fuck up" kinda way.
Will post it after I suppose.
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eh i'd post it, but there were no real highlights. Essentially it was:
"have fun with my replacement. Guess you never really had feelings for me." to which she said "yes I did." and I said "well then why are you fooling around with this guy and having dirty phonesex with him?" "fooling around with him? no?" to which I presented the proof and she had no rebuttal. and then it was "i tried so hard to make it work. But I started to hate some things about you, and I didn't want to hurt you by telling you that." and we all know that's probably the stupidest thing ever and makes absolutely no sense. Clearly she has a lot of growing up to do, and isn't even remotely a good person. because you can't claim to care for someone and think "oh...lying to them and cheating on them will hurt less than communicating with them." so i'm walking away with my head held high
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damnit - if only I had guy friends who wanted to go to RI to the strip clubs with me!!
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my favorite parts - where she claimed "i tried really hard to make this work." -- when in reality she didn't lift a fucking finger to make it work...it was always her bottom priority
and when she accused me of "stalking her online." she said "what'd you check my gin score is that how you found out about him?" -- and it's like "uhhh yeah...and apparently I had good reason to." or how about "you have no idea about hatch. Or anyone else." yeahh that was nice...cuz you know...i wasn't really nieve enough to think that this was the first time, but way to like...rub it in there. psycho cuntrag.
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*bump* vodka mmm...and salty tears
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Hatcher Flaschen?!?
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uh oh...
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OMG YES!!! THIS IS IT!!!
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there is a site out there where you can submit nude pictures of your ex...
I have the link but I dont want to link it, even with XX as it immediately links to nude pictures....however, for your situation, you could, you know... pics plz k thx
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i'd put a pic up in here, but not one like that...
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