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#1101 |
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Join Date: Oct 2002
Location: Massachusetts
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#1102 | |
Hall Of Famer
Join Date: Oct 2002
Location: Massachusetts
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Well yeah - there was some conversational banter before that...that was more the closing to it. And she texted me back, so the ball's in my court.
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#1103 | |
Coordinator
Join Date: Apr 2005
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Is it weird that I'm guilty of eating things straight out of the bowl/dish that are suppose to be eaten with chips? Maybe it's because I'm not the biggest chip fan... |
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#1104 |
Grizzled Veteran
Join Date: Aug 2008
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#1105 | |
Hall Of Famer
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Where Hip Hop lives
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It's atypical. I wouldn't call it weird, just something you do that is a bit out of the ordinary. I guess you and the girl I was out with would have gotten along famously.
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#1106 |
Coordinator
Join Date: May 2002
Location: Jacksonville, FL
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This thread is full of way too much thinking.
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#1107 |
Head Coach
Join Date: Sep 2004
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Beware yon Torgius. He thinks too much. Such men are girlfriendless.
(Rather like me. I love analyzing this shit.)
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#1108 | |
Pro Starter
Join Date: Jul 2001
Location: Not Delaware - hurray!
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So, you eat salsa like soup?
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#1109 |
Coordinator
Join Date: Apr 2005
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#1110 |
Hall Of Famer
Join Date: Oct 2002
Location: Massachusetts
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Well I mean...part of the whole thing is like...trying to figure out what my feelings are for this person. Can I see myself in a relationship with them?
My time is short...I don't want to waste time with someone I'm not feeling, ya know? And I'm a newb, so I'm trying to process it all, keep that in mind. |
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#1111 |
Hall Of Famer
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Where Hip Hop lives
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Too much thinking early on, DT. Just have fun. If something happens, great. If it doesn't, also great.
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. . I would rather be wrong...Than live in the shadows of your song...My mind is open wide...And now I'm ready to start...You're not sure...You open the door...And step out into the dark...Now I'm ready. |
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#1112 |
Grizzled Veteran
Join Date: Aug 2008
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I figure the best way to find out is asking her out again.
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#1113 | |
College Benchwarmer
Join Date: Jan 2002
Location: Las Vegas
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Question should be (1) Did I have a good time on the last date (2) Do I want to have fun with her on a date again. If yes to both then ask her out again. Your time is short? You've been single for how long and plan to live how long? You have all the time in the world unless your internal baby maker clock is going off and if it is, you are going to settle for someone. |
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#1114 |
Hall Of Famer
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Where Hip Hop lives
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I started to write something else and then I realized, we're not helping DT not think much.
Really, bro, just stop thinking and go have fun.
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#1115 |
Head Coach
Join Date: Jul 2001
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#1116 |
Resident Alien
Join Date: Jun 2001
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And stop being a wimp. Be more assertive!
(This comes from a guy who was fairly wimpy with girls. It didn't work all that great most of the time.) Don't waste too much effort thinking about long term possibilities. Just try to have fun in the moment and you'll naturally learn if you're compatible. |
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#1117 |
Head Coach
Join Date: Jul 2001
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I was a wimp at one point too, had the first girl I was ever in love with manipulate me and cause me pain to no end before I finally got tired of it.
I was still a nice guy after that, but much more assertive and knew how I deserved to be treated and didn't play or put up with games. |
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#1118 |
Head Coach
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: NYC
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So this girl picked up the check, normally a great move. She could have done this for only two reasons: 1) She really likes you and wanted you to know she was an awesome girl who doesn't think that just cause you're the guy you need to pay every time or 2) she wants nothing to do with you and felt bad about it, so she figured "okay, I'm going to drop this guy like a bad habit after tonight, so I will cushion the blow a bit by not putting him out any more money."
I would estimate the odds are split 95%/5% between those two scenarios, respectively. Girls who want nothing to do with you will very rarely pay for shit. That's all you need to know. And if you're wrong, you're wrong...oh well. Text or call her ASAP with a simple "I want to take you out for dinner/drinks, are you free (day you're open)?". Straight and to the point. |
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#1119 | |
Hall Of Famer
Join Date: Oct 2002
Location: Massachusetts
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Very true. I'm not worried I'm wrong about that...more just trying to figure how I feel.
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#1120 |
College Starter
Join Date: Oct 2002
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Stop it, Ted Mosby. Just stop it.
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#1121 |
Head Coach
Join Date: Sep 2004
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#1122 |
Head Coach
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: NYC
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#1123 | |
Head Coach
Join Date: Sep 2004
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And while you sit around waiting to figure out how you feel, some other dude who doesn't dick around can sweep right in and take her, and then you realize Oh shit I like her, well guess what son, that train done left the damn station and you're SOL.
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#1124 | |
College Starter
Join Date: Oct 2002
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#1125 |
Hall Of Famer
Join Date: Oct 2002
Location: Massachusetts
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LOL
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#1126 |
Head Coach
Join Date: Oct 2002
Location: Seven miles up
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Perspective. You say time is running short, dude, even a year isn't going to kill you for a girl. Stop putting so much pressure on yourself and relax man.
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#1127 |
Pro Starter
Join Date: Sep 2005
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Ask yourself one question.
1. Does she make you smile, even when she's not there? If the answer is yes, don't be stupid. Even if it isn't, take it for what it is and enjoy what you can. |
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#1128 |
Head Coach
Join Date: Jul 2001
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Ask yourself one question.
1. Does she make you erect, even when she's not there? If the answer is yes, don't be stupid. Even if it isn't, take it for what it is and enjoy what you can Last edited by Danny : 08-13-2013 at 09:07 PM. |
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#1129 |
Head Coach
Join Date: Feb 2003
Location: Bath, ME
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Ask yourself one question.
1. Does she make you do chores, even when she's not there? If the answer is yes, don't be stupid, do the chores. Even if it isn't, get some shit done just in case. Oh wait, is this the Marriage thread? |
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#1130 |
College Prospect
Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: TX
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I would just end things with her unless you like wasting time. Of course I like to get to know rather a girl would be fun to be around even after 20 years of marriage, but the few girls I had a great date with kept me from thinking about the future. There are other girls in the world, of course this my opinion. I'd blow her off if you're not into her.
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#1131 |
Pro Starter
Join Date: Feb 2006
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Watch the movie Swingers...it will show you what not to do and what absolutely to do.
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#1132 | |
Grizzled Veteran
Join Date: Aug 2008
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+1. Quote:
What not to do.
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#1133 |
Hall Of Famer
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Where Hip Hop lives
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Maybe the most painful scene ever.
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#1134 |
Pro Starter
Join Date: Feb 2006
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#1135 |
Coordinator
Join Date: Apr 2005
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#1136 | |
Hall Of Famer
Join Date: Nov 2000
Location: Behind Enemy Lines in Athens, GA
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Saw this blurb about in an article about comic Marc Maron's series on IFC. So help me, the first thing I thought of was this thread
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#1137 |
Head Coach
Join Date: Sep 2004
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Anybody ever tried speed dating?
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#1138 |
Coordinator
Join Date: Apr 2005
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#1139 |
Head Coach
Join Date: Sep 2004
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No. I've been thinking about it though.
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#1140 |
Hall Of Famer
Join Date: Oct 2002
Location: Massachusetts
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Wisdom needed:
So one of the eHarmony pre-written questions is along the lines of "What have you learned from past relationships?" So of course this girl who is interesting asks me that. I don't really have an answer. Somehow I don't think "Haven't had enough past relationships to learn anything" is a winning answer. What can I say that's a good answer without being BS? |
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#1141 |
Head Coach
Join Date: Sep 2004
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Broaden the definition of relationship to cover all relationships, not just romantic.
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#1142 | |
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Join Date: Oct 2002
Location: Massachusetts
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Yeah - I think that was my initial thought also.
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#1143 | |
Favored Bitch #1
Join Date: Dec 2001
Location: homeless in NJ
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I would say that you have learned you aren't going to try and change who you are for someone else. |
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#1144 | |
Hall Of Famer
Join Date: Oct 2002
Location: Massachusetts
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Also good call.
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#1145 |
General Manager
Join Date: Oct 2002
Location: The Mountains
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I'm not sure if Lathum is intentionally being ironic, but what would be your honest answer if you weren't concerned at all with how it came across to anyone? (I don't think the answer is you haven't learned anything, I'm sure you've learned tons along the way). At least start there. (Though, Lathum's answer is great for opening the door/getting another email from her, I just think its good too get in the habit of working through that stuff in a self-reflective way.)
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#1146 | |
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Join Date: Oct 2002
Location: Massachusetts
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Well I think I can come up with a good answer from a non-romantic-relationship POV. I don't think I have a problem if you expand it out to that. If you take the question as "what have you learned from your past romantic relationships?" then my honest answer is "I haven't had any of any meaningful depth enough to learn anything."
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#1147 |
Head Coach
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: NYC
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Head Coach
Join Date: Oct 2002
Location: Seven miles up
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Join Date: Oct 2002
Location: Massachusetts
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Shameless cross-posts from my thread in the dynasty forum
10/26 Quote:
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#1150 |
Head Coach
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: NYC
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Sweet!
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