What The Heck To Do? (Pseudo-Stalker) - Page 2

Dr. Sak · 07-28-2008, 02:37 PM

There are a few options...

1. Ignore her and hope she goes away.

2. Tell her you don't want to talk to her.

3. Make up a lie on how you have an ultra possessive boyfriend that doesn't let you see anyone that isn't a scientologist because your brainwashing is not complete.

4. Say you are not allowed out of the house because the last time you did you broke your ankle.

I can think up a few more if you want?

rkmsuf · 07-28-2008, 02:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dr. Sak

There are a few options...

1. Ignore her and hope she goes away.

2. Tell her you don't want to talk to her.

3. Make up a lie on how you have an ultra possessive boyfriend that doesn't let you see anyone that isn't a scientologist because your brainwashing is not complete.

4. Say you are not allowed out of the house because the last time you did you broke your ankle.

I can think up a few more if you want?

like she couldn't think up some

MikeVic · 07-28-2008, 02:39 PM

Say you're pretty busy with stuff and are having enough of a challenge trying to keep in touch with closer friends.

Pumpy Tudors · 07-28-2008, 03:37 PM

just hatefuck her on the table

game over

Easy Mac · 07-28-2008, 04:47 PM

don't shave

Bisbo · 07-28-2008, 05:00 PM

I can tell you, from personal experience, that one thing that works really good on a stalker is a shot of pepper spray, right in the eyes. I'm still having trouble with my vision.

terpkristin · 07-28-2008, 08:11 PM

Well, it's done.
I was content to keep ignoring things, but then I got 2 IM's, and then after I blocked those, I got a mail to my flickr account (all within 30 minutes), so I replied there. I was probably harsher than I would have been if I hadn't been getting seriosuly weirded out by the stalker-ish-ness. I said how creepy it was that this person had obviously been looking up my online presence, in particular because I'd never announced that I joined Twitter (well I did here, but it's harder to Google stuff here I've found).

I also mentioned that I haven't talked to anybody from high school in over 7 years, and I wasn't really interested in starting now. And I asked that this person not reply to my flickr mail, just move on.

It was harsh, and now I'm literally afraid that I'll have a lunchbag of poo on my doorstep (or much worse), given how much stalker-esque stuff has gone on, but at least from my end, it's over.

/tk

jeff061 · 07-28-2008, 09:17 PM

Lunch bag of poo is not to shabby given the possibility of a dead cat in a box.

TCY Junkie · 07-28-2008, 09:56 PM

Someone needs to take a class on handling stalkers. Hopefully you never hear from her again.

Spree · 07-28-2008, 11:16 PM

Yikes. The pseudo-stalker is either heartbroken or confused at this point.

stevew · 07-28-2008, 11:18 PM

You probably should have added you weren't interested in going downtown to eat or in checking out a doubleheader

Mrs. Schmidty · 07-29-2008, 08:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SFL Cat

E-mail her a link to this thread.

HA!

As a woman and that hardly keeps in contact with anyone from high school myself, I say be upfront and don't meet up with her. Just tell her, "Sorry, but I'm really not interested in meeting up. I'm not trying to be mean, but that's just how it is. Now please stop contacting me." I used to try to be nice to everyone regardless of how they made me feel, but you really don't have to be. There's nothing wrong we just telling her the truth - ESPECIALLY if you feel creeped out by her behavior.

Mrs. Schmidty · 07-29-2008, 08:41 AM

dola

I replied before getting to the end of the thread, now I say "Well done!"

Pumpy Tudors · 07-29-2008, 10:21 AM

Welp, this explains why my wife was pissy last night.

RendeR · 07-29-2008, 01:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Izulde

I wonder if she has Ani DiFranco, Bikini Kill and Indigo Girls in heavy rotation

hey, whats wrong with my 3 favorite cds???? erm...um..nevermind, nothing to see here...

Quote:

Originally Posted by jeff061

Are there people out there this determined to strike up a platonic relationship?

DING!

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lorena

SHE CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH!!!

I heart Lorena.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rizon

Tell her she can email me. I could use a stalker about now.

She said she didn't WANT to be mean about it.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pumpy Tudors

just hatefuck her on the table

game over

THREAD WINNER!

Seriously though, good that you let her know and dealt with it, hopefully she'll get the clue and leave you alone now.

ColtCrazy · 07-29-2008, 10:34 PM

Well, I see you've made a move so I hope things work out. Hopefully she'll wake up and move on to another member of your high school to stalk for awhile! Really hope this takes care of it for you.

Tasan · 07-30-2008, 02:30 AM

Here's hoping we hear from terpkristin again!

;- )

07-28-2008, 03:37 PM	#54
Pumpy Tudors Bounty Hunter Join Date: Oct 2000 Location: Pittsburgh, PA	just hatefuck her on the table game over __________________ No, I am not Batman, and I will not repair your food processor.

07-28-2008, 08:11 PM	#57
terpkristin Grizzled Veteran Join Date: May 2003 Location: Ashburn, VA	Well, it's done. I was content to keep ignoring things, but then I got 2 IM's, and then after I blocked those, I got a mail to my flickr account (all within 30 minutes), so I replied there. I was probably harsher than I would have been if I hadn't been getting seriosuly weirded out by the stalker-ish-ness. I said how creepy it was that this person had obviously been looking up my online presence, in particular because I'd never announced that I joined Twitter (well I did here, but it's harder to Google stuff here I've found). I also mentioned that I haven't talked to anybody from high school in over 7 years, and I wasn't really interested in starting now. And I asked that this person not reply to my flickr mail, just move on. It was harsh, and now I'm literally afraid that I'll have a lunchbag of poo on my doorstep (or much worse), given how much stalker-esque stuff has gone on, but at least from my end, it's over. /tk __________________ GO TERPS! https://www.flickr.com/photos/terpkristin https://twitter.com/terpkristin

07-28-2008, 09:17 PM	#58
jeff061 Grizzled Veteran Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: MA	Lunch bag of poo is not to shabby given the possibility of a dead cat in a box. __________________

07-28-2008, 09:56 PM	#59
TCY Junkie College Prospect Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: TX	Someone needs to take a class on handling stalkers. Hopefully you never hear from her again. __________________ I try to open things I probably have no chance of opening.

07-29-2008, 10:21 AM	#64
Pumpy Tudors Bounty Hunter Join Date: Oct 2000 Location: Pittsburgh, PA	Welp, this explains why my wife was pissy last night. __________________ No, I am not Batman, and I will not repair your food processor.

07-28-2008, 02:39 PM	#53
MikeVic Head Coach Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Hometown of Canada	Say you're pretty busy with stuff and are having enough of a challenge trying to keep in touch with closer friends.

07-28-2008, 04:47 PM	#55
Easy Mac Registered User Join Date: Nov 2001 Location: Here	don't shave

07-28-2008, 05:00 PM	#56
Bisbo H.S. Freshman Team Join Date: Mar 2006	I can tell you, from personal experience, that one thing that works really good on a stalker is a shot of pepper spray, right in the eyes. I'm still having trouble with my vision.

07-28-2008, 11:16 PM	#60
Spree n00b Join Date: Jul 2001	Yikes. The pseudo-stalker is either heartbroken or confused at this point.

07-28-2008, 11:18 PM	#61
stevew Hall Of Famer Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: the yo'	You probably should have added you weren't interested in going downtown to eat or in checking out a doubleheader

07-29-2008, 08:41 AM	#63
Mrs. Schmidty High School Varsity Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Bellingham, WA	dola I replied before getting to the end of the thread, now I say "Well done!"

07-29-2008, 10:34 PM	#66
ColtCrazy College Starter Join Date: Oct 2000 Location: Midwest	Well, I see you've made a move so I hope things work out. Hopefully she'll wake up and move on to another member of your high school to stalk for awhile! Really hope this takes care of it for you. __________________ The Field Generals and Statis Pro Basketball Super League

07-30-2008, 02:30 AM	#67
Tasan College Starter Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Houston, or there about	Here's hoping we hear from terpkristin again! ;- ) __________________ 2011 Golden Scribes winner for best Interactive Dynasty

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