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The excuse given in the media reports was that it equated shaved heads (or heads with hair cut too short) with potential gang activity. I'm sure it had a rule against long hair, too, and it probably had portraits of long-haired Jesus prominently displayed all over. |
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01-11-2006, 01:09 PM | #53 | |
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The Church can disagree with me till kingdom come - hell, I'm still bothered by the idea that they have tax-exempt status. I do concede your latter point is best followed for all parties involved. |
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01-11-2006, 01:17 PM | #57 | |
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Well, that and the fact that they wanted to get tax exempt status. http://www.oyez.org/oyez/resource/case/39/ |
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01-11-2006, 01:21 PM | #58 | |
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Because the government is constrained by the Constitution; the church is not. As soon as the Church starts breaking into my house and/or harassing me, then I am going to hit them with lawsuits for harassment and destruction of property. But if all the church is doing is saying that I can't be a member of the church/school because of what I do or say . . . . then that is their right (subject to whatever federal or state anti-discrimination statutes may be applicable to them as employers or places of public accomidation). |
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01-11-2006, 01:50 PM | #60 | |
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01-11-2006, 01:58 PM | #61 | |
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It is a good point. But would a football player get expelled for kissing a girl? Obviously not. I know people will say it's different, and it is - but it shouldn't be. Just like the earlier post comparing it to an inter-racial or inter-religion relationship. I just think there is something wrong with expelling someone for something they did on their own time, that did not cause any harm to anyone else.
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Why does kissing a girl show "disregard for the spirit of the school standards"?
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But that's not the issue. The issue is whether or not a private school should be able to or not. If someone thinks it's wrong to expell a student for that reason, then they do not have to enroll there. |
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Unfortunately, I'm not going to be able to see both sides to this story until an extremely overwrought docudrama is made about it.... especially unless it goes straight to Cinemax.
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I agree in general that this private school should have the right to dictate standards of behavior for their students and be able to remove students that violate those standards (so long as said standards don't break the law), but the school also has the responsibility to clearly define what constitutes unacceptable behavior. Not knowing this school, I have no idea whether the girl's actions were clearly a violation of school policy. |
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So you aren't against the idea of the contract or the school expelling someone for violation of the contract, you just don't like the fact that a girl kissing another girl is considered against their contract? I don't disagree with you, I'm just looking to get at the heart of your argument. |
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Yeah, I know why but that doesn't make it right. It makes it discrimination based on sexual orientation and that is wrong, I don't care who does it.
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she likes doing other women. not that I object to that.
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01-11-2006, 02:11 PM | #77 | |
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I think this is essential. It is hard to know what is against the spirit of the school standards without more detail. There may be documents in place which contain these guidelines, but we haven't seen them yet. I do hate to see this kind of discrimination, but it is not uncommon in the religious world. Many religions do view homosexuality as a sin. |
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Actually, if there was an agreement against, let's say "public displays of affection", then yes, they could be. (I figure if you go do hypothetical, so can I )
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Question....if this girl had slapped another female......would she have gotten expelled?
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Dawgfan: You may be right from a strictly legal standpoint. I'm just talking good ol' common sense here. I can't begin to count the number of private schools on the north side of metro Atlanta--both secular and ecumenical. I find it hard to believe that this family couldn't find one that more closely matched their values and behaviors. That's all I'm saying. It smells a little like someone trying to pick a fight.
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I also agree that the school has the right to set standards. However, when the standards are vague (as they seem to be here), my understanding is that the law construes disagreements over the meaning of the terms of a contract against the drafter of the contract. Therefore, if the court decides the standards that were being agreed to were vague, the school won't be able to enforce them. I think there's a plausible case here.
One thing I've always wondered about these Christian schools that expel students for certain conduct, though - is expulsion really a Christian thing to do? Shouldn't a Christian school, if it really believes is Christianity as a mission, try using counseling and ministry to change behavior it disapproves of? Expulsion for this kind of thing seems to me hypocritical and counterproductive to their mission. |
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Dunno, I don't have a copy of their handbook & haven't seen any excerpts regarding that one way or the other.
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Let's not forget the girl was in the NINTH GRADE. To me, it smells like a troubled girl whose parents blame everybody else for her troubles. |
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Maybe other female posters here can elaborate on this, but my impression is that this kind of behavior in this setting at this general age range is something that happens relatively often and isn't necessarily a pre-cursor to a girl describing herself as lesbian. I believe that often girls at this age will "practice" kissing with other girls even though they're both straight. If that is true, then I would see that as further evidence that this school over-reacted and a big reason why the parents would be so pissed-off as to file suit against the school. |
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***WARNING*** ***WARNING***WARNING*** ***BROAD GENERALIZATION AHEAD*** ***WARNING***WARNING***WARNING*** To put it bluntly, not really. Forget the *stated* mission of these schools, if there is one that actually mentions reaching out to the wayward. For the VAST majority of parents who put their kids in private "Christian" schools, a large part of the motivation is sheltering them from certain types of kids/behaviors. It has nothing to do with reaching out, but with protection and creating what I like to call "fat sheep."
(Great, now here come the claims from the right that I'm not a "real Christian...")
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Ninth grade would make her about 15. Seems like normal bahavior for someone of that age. |
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It's not normal for 15 year old girls to be kicked out of school, and then turn around and sue the school, which is what I was focused on. I also doubt it's normal behavior for 15 year old girls to kiss other girls, but I really wouldn't know. |
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I'd really have to hear more specific details about the alledged incidents, especially the all-girl sleepover. Preferably from both points of view and step-by-step. |
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Not being a girl, I would suggest that it's not "normal". I can't really say though since I was busy playing with myself back then. Anywho, it's more common now but I wouldn't say it's reached the majority status. In short, I agree.
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Which really isn't that surprising, given that the school's mission is rarely to reach out to others, but to educate Xian kids in a Xian setting. If their mission is outreach, they're really a ministry instead of a school. I don't think there's really anything wrong with putting your kids in a sheltered environment. It doesn't help them deal with secular diversity, of course, but there's nothing necessarily wrong with it. |
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The parent I respect the most in my community is a guy who was raised in one of those sheltered environments. As an adult, he looked around and said to himself, "I don't have ANY friends who don't follow Christ. That's completely counter to who Jesus was." He decided that his kids would be exposed to kids from "worldly" families (with close supervision, of course) so that they'd be set up to have authentic friendships with people outside the Church. It worked, too. Their daughter now works full-time for the same ministry I do, working with much wilder kids than would be found in your average church youth group. Their son, a senior in HS last year, was approached by a group of "party kids" last year who said, "We want to learn about the Bible, and we want YOU to teach us about it." Their other son's name was brought up to me just this past weekend by a now-college-graduated-former-party-kid-turned-believer as "the only kid in our high school who was cool and followed Christ."
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