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I would tell her not to worry about it and that she can get it next time.
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10-20-2009, 11:30 AM
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Join Date: Feb 2001
Location: Bloomington, IN
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Clearly I have not been around enough of late for people to remember that no one should ever take dating advice from me. Ever. I mean it. I live in mortal terror that my kids will take dating advice from me. |
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10-20-2009, 11:31 AM
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Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: San Jose, CA
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Kind of a tough call. Did she seem attracted to you at all? I mean, was she laughing at your jokes? Flirting?
The thing that makes me wonder is that she waited to text you until the next morning, which means she was thinking about you most likely the rest of the night. That could be great, or as Solecismic mentioned, a result of negative anxiety because of upcoming forced contact. Really, like everyone already said, don't accept her money unless she insists and gives the bad vibes. You'll find out where you stand if you directly ask her out. Make it like a faux-competition "I want to take you out again. This time I get to choose where we're going, and it's going to be even more fun." If you don't really care too much, a fun thing to do after going out with someone you know you're going to see again is to play a game I like to call "Black Widower Game". At work today, just completely ignore her. Now, there's a chance that she isn't into you, so she won't notice, and you'll just feel like a weirdo, but if she is into you, she'll approach you like a giddy schoolgirl, and you'll establish control, which will give you an endless amount of confidence.
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10-20-2009, 11:31 AM
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Nope, but one did lie about getting raped so that I would come back to school over Thanksgiving. She was just a little bit of a pathological liar. |
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10-20-2009, 11:34 AM
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Oh sounds like one of my ex girlfriends. |
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10-20-2009, 11:43 AM
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Join Date: Dec 2004
Location: San Diego via Sausalito via San Jose via San Diego
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You should stick your thumb in her butt. Most women like it, but, aren't willing to admit it.
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10-20-2009, 11:46 AM
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Join Date: Oct 2002
Location: Miami
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Stick your thumb in her butt or your middle finger; either one should get the job done.
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10-20-2009, 11:47 AM
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Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: San Jose, CA
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Haha. You know what's funny? Is after that thread happened, I had an opportunity to do just that. And guess what? She loved it! I thought about an FOFC thread during sex.
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10-20-2009, 11:47 AM
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Join Date: Oct 2002
Location: Miami
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I believe you.
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10-20-2009, 11:47 AM
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10-20-2009, 11:50 AM
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Location: San Jose, CA
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No, I don't think about FOFC while finishing. Although, I have been prone to yell out "IN THE BLEACHERS!" while having my nipples sucked.
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10-20-2009, 11:51 AM
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Location: Stuck in Yinzerville, PA
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Your check is in the mail for the advertising! |
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10-20-2009, 12:00 PM
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Location: NYC
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I've done that, and I believe I posted about it too. And to bring this full circle, I'm 95% sure it was related to a co-worker. |
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10-20-2009, 12:00 PM
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Join Date: Dec 2004
Location: San Diego via Sausalito via San Jose via San Diego
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Excellent!! This place is better than Oprah and Dr. Phil combined.
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10-20-2009, 12:00 PM
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10-20-2009, 12:05 PM
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10-20-2009, 01:11 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: Los Angeles
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if you like her ask her out again. say she can pay if shes that worried. at least one way or another you wont be confused anymore.
and since she texted you the next morning, i think your in good shape here, regardless of what it said. |
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10-20-2009, 01:11 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2001
Location: Burke, VA
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I dated this girl from work once. Well, actually we weren't dating, but we did get drunk one night at work and hooked up. She was my manager at the time so it probably wasn't a great idea. I was also engaged at the time, so it REALLY wasn't a good idea. I'd been dicking around about scheduling the wedding anyway and it just kinda happened. As it turns out, I wound up getting my boss pregnant that one time and my fiancee found out about it at my bachelor party at work. My fiancee was pissed but by that time I realized I was actually in love with my boss. She was in love with me, too, so we wound up getting married, and along with my co-worker and best friend we ended up quitting our jobs there, borrowing some cash from some stoner friends, and buying the old convenience store we used to work at.
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10-20-2009, 01:15 PM
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Pics please...
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10-20-2009, 01:17 PM
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Nice.
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10-20-2009, 01:19 PM
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Location: Michigan
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I doubt your advice is that useful to Sami because, you know, he is talking about a women. |
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10-20-2009, 01:20 PM
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Join Date: Dec 2002
Location: Michigan
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Maybe next time you should think about wrapping it up so you don't get chlamydia? |
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10-20-2009, 01:25 PM
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What would JimmyWint do?
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10-20-2009, 01:57 PM
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Location: GA
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10-20-2009, 02:04 PM
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Join Date: Jul 2001
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I met my wife at work too although we weren't technically coworkers. I was a checker at the grocery store that had an in store bank branch. She was a teller there. |
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10-20-2009, 02:41 PM
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On a related note, after telling myself I wouldn't call her again she called me & wanted to go out for drinks since she was feeling better. She paid for the dinner & drinks. It was a mistake, as I now have the worst blue-balls of my life. How does a woman let you get to second no problem, but won't let you near 1st, 3rd or home? Maybe the quote of the night was "I think my ex really screwed me up... The one that tried to kill me." Quote:
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10-20-2009, 03:09 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: San Jose, CA
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First of all, I never wrap it up. Second of all, I really need to start giving you some new material.
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10-20-2009, 03:11 PM
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10-20-2009, 03:16 PM
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Yes, agreed. My grandfather use to say never make your Honey where you make your money. Anyways , this discussion is pointless without pics.plz  Last edited by Galaril : 10-20-2009 at 03:17 PM. |
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10-20-2009, 03:24 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: NYC
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I fucking hate this animation shit.
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10-20-2009, 03:25 PM
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Join Date: Jul 2001
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Further on this and regarding the advice given, I agree with the advice, but it depends on the job. I worked my checker job during the evening when I went to school. I really wouldn't have cared if I needed to quit for some reason, so I wouldn't have worried about dating a co-worker (and I went out with one a few times before I met my wife actually) |
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10-20-2009, 03:32 PM
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Pro Starter
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Location: Oakland, CA
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No, there isn't. |
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10-20-2009, 03:36 PM
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Location: Buffalo, NY
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10-20-2009, 03:54 PM
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Karlifornia: meet VD VD: meet Karlifornia  |
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10-20-2009, 04:00 PM
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Join Date: Dec 2004
Location: San Diego via Sausalito via San Jose via San Diego
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Nope. They all have to find something wrong with the relationship to justify their crazy ass way of rationalizing things.
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Was she wearing pajamas? Quote:
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See, this is why you should pay for dinner and drinks. Well, at least drinks. Quote:
Wow, no kissing but lots of boobage? Interesting.... Quote:
Hopefully he wasn't also your waiter that night.  Quote:
Actually....no, there are not. You can't stop crazy, you can only hope to contain it. But in all seriousness, you will find the right one when you are not even looking for it. That's what happened to me, after numerous flame outs, crazies, nut-jobs, one night stands, etc..., she is out there, maybe you are looking for the wrong type of woman? (hint: she probably won't be wearing pajamas the first time you meet). Last edited by RomaGoth : 10-20-2009 at 04:02 PM. |
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10-20-2009, 04:27 PM
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What's weird is on my previous date (back at Christmas) we ended up back at her place for drinks & she changed into pajamas, telling me "I don't allow street clothes in my apartment." At least she allowed the running of the bases. |
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10-20-2009, 04:28 PM
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Join Date: Jul 2001
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Honestly, sometimes it is nice just to step directly from the batters box onto home plate. |
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10-20-2009, 04:42 PM
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Join Date: Nov 2007
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Street clothes? Versus...say, non-street clothes? Car clothes? Apartment clothes? Sex clothes? Eating clothes? (you get the idea) Dude, run. Run very fast. |
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10-20-2009, 04:43 PM
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Join Date: Dec 2003
Location: the yo'
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How was conversation over dinner? If it was flirty, then you should be good. If you're not sure, well then good luck with the next.
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10-20-2009, 04:44 PM
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Join Date: Jul 2001
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He said that was the girl he dated before the one he is dating now. |
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10-20-2009, 04:50 PM
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Location: Los Angeles
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As in, her pajamas are her uniform. You should have asked what the going rate is for her services.
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10-20-2009, 06:33 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2004
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The way I see it, it's a win-win.
Either she's in to you or you get a shot at getting your money back, which means you just had yourself a free meal. You can't lose either way on this one.
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10-20-2009, 06:53 PM
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Join Date: Dec 2003
Location: the yo'
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Hmmm
Reevaluated. You've worked with her awhile now and have been texting? Basically that was permission for her to go as far as to fuck your brains out last night. And not feel like a slut. All that coupled with the "I has moneys for you" makes me think she is just not into you. Maybe? |
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10-20-2009, 07:08 PM
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Not enough information.
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10-20-2009, 07:31 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: NYC
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Were you seeing her at work tonight or tomorrow?
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10-20-2009, 07:34 PM
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Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: Jersey
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I think her text is not good. If she wanted more she would've put the ball in your court by saying, "You picked up the check. you'll have to let me get it next time," and hope for the "how about Saturday" response from you. I also think that most girls would've just waited until you made the next move either at work or via the phone.
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10-20-2009, 07:45 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: TX
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Every girl that contacted me after going out always did it within 15 minutes. If I had a decent time I'd contact them like 4 days later and usually ask them to go camping or something like that. If they say it might not be safe because they might be an ax murder and rather do something else than your golden. I don't think your getting anywhere. You could be doing her right now though just to make me look bad and you never really know about these things.
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10-20-2009, 09:48 PM
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Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: San Diego, CA
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Not to be a downer but Jim's first post is dead on. Sorry man, she's not interested and wanted to make sure you damn well knew it before going back into work.
Play it cool, you never know when circumstances may change. Doing anything now, in my opinion, would sabotage any potential which may exist down the road. |
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10-20-2009, 10:13 PM
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Join Date: Apr 2001
Location: NC
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One thing I forgot to mention was that she also said she had fun watching the game with me and thought it was cool. Does that change anything? She had fun but wanted to pay half.
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