i have a friend who we've always thought had aspergers. there are upsides to it. the kid, when he actually puts his mind to something, becomes an absolute genius at it. first it was basketball, and he dominated. DOMINATED. then, a few years ago, he switched to playing the guitar. now he tours the east coast blowing the doors off blues clubs.
im sorry to hear about your son, but maybe something like that will happen, too. id say glue his hands to a golf club, and let him become the next tiger woods. may as well make some money off it