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Originally Posted by JPhillips
I could and probably have said to much, but I can't ever fathom grabbing a stranger's ass or masturbating at a coworker.
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Ditto. I have a heaping helping of social anxiety and beyond all the sordid details these stories just perplex me because the last thing I'd ever want to do is destroy boundaries and initiate intimate contact with a stranger.
I've even gone so far as to realize that I allllmost think like a sexual predator....except for the crucial detail that it's defensive instead of offensive. Like, I'll immediately analyze a stranger for attractiveness and competitiveness (or lack thereof?), but I'm MUCH more likely to use that information to weasel
out of more intimate social situations, rather than manipulate myself inwards.