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Originally Posted by JonInMiddleGA
So should potential adoptive parents just assume that this
"I was lied to and misled by the Russian Orphanage workers and director regarding his mental stability and other issues. ...
is going to be the case?
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I would say yes. If you have your own kid biologically, there's no guarantee about what kind of mental stability issues your kid is going to have. It's a crapshoot. Even though you have more control when you're adopting (you can at least know if some obvious physical issues are present), there's still going to be a wild card element. But it's still parenthood, you don't get to change your mind, even if it ruins your life.
And if you just everything a russian orphanage worker tells you, that's a pretty big problem.